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Ok, let Me get this out of the way up-front. I have physical disabilities, if that would be a deal breaker for you thank you for being honest with yourself and I wish you success in your journey. I was born with a disability, which as a complication lead to Me going legally blind some time ago. I am open about My situation and if you have any question you need only ask and I will be happy to answer them. First lesson I learned from My mentor was: Speak Clearly. The thought being the more flowery the language, the further from the truth it gets. And in this Lifestyle truth is everything. So I will be as clear as I can. I am 6'3" tall and currently just over 300 pounds. I am working on the weight but I will never be a thin guy. I have over four years of experience in the D/s Lifestyle. I am not the stereotypical hardass Dom. I guess the fashionable term lately is gentle Dom, this also depends on which definition you subscribe to. I am not above pain for pleasure, but My discipline is mental.
I hesitate to say I am old guard, but I have been taught and agree with old guard fundamentals. Also, I am an unashamed geek. It is what I am so I wear it like a badge of honor. What I NEED is a service submissive. Someone who can help raise the quality of My daily life. What I WANT is the complete package, a partner in life, in and outside the bedroom. My Madonna and My whore. Someone I can praise in public and degrade in the bedroom, while cherishing the whole time. Ultimately, My goal would be a 24/7 relationship given the right connection. Qualities of the submissive I seek:
* Female, this is non-negotiable.
* Single, another big one. I do not share, I am looking for monogamy.
* Open-minded, it amuses Me to have to state this considering the site this ad is place upon, but apparently it is necessary.
* Born before 1993. I cannot be with some who was born after I graduated high school. I am used to dating older then Myself, but will consider someone slightly younger as long as the maturity is there.
* Intelligence, I like to be challenged intellectually, after all the biggest sex organ in the body is actually the brain.
* Sense of humor, I am a fun loving person and a quick wit is a big turn on.
* Loyalty, another one I should not have to list but do because of its importance. In general, I am often referred to as a sweetheart and a teddy bear. I do not feel the need to be a ‘tough’ Dom just to prove something. That behavior has always came across as insecurity to Me. I am also not the type to make demands of subs that are not mine. So if I come off as less then what you expect do not mistake My patience in learning about you and forging a solid connection for anything less than Me being secure in who I am. If you have made it this far I thank you for your interest. Feel free to message Me.
AlyssaAlex
 
 Age: 33
 North Conway, New Hampshire