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I have had a fantasy that I just keep wanting more and more as time goes by. I want to slowly lose control to a boyfriend until I am his perfect fantasy girlfriend.
Obviously, I need to trust you and find you really hot. That pretty much rules out anyone over 30, sorry. It also means I am not jumping right into this. I want to get to know you a bit, both personally and what you will be interested in doing with me.
If this works out, the way I see it happening is
We chat online, get to know each other.
If it goes really well, we meet offline.
If that goes well, we keep meeting, becoming friends, and basically getting into a normal dating thing.
If that goes well and I can see us being a happy couple, then I will become more and more submissive to you, giving you more and more control.
At that point, in private, any vanilla sex is totally under your control, 24 7 365, no questions asked. You can also push me towards any kink and fetish play you want me to try for you, but you will be pushing me to try them, not forcing me. With a few exceptions, I am pretty open to trying things, and if I do not hate them, I will give you the green light to include it as an anytime, no questions asked activity. For the most part,the limits I wont be flexible about can be summed up as no pain*, no public, and no permanent. In public, we are still just a normal, everyday happy couple. In private, I am completely under your control. I have no choice but to keep up with satisfying your every sexual craving, no matter how insatiable your sex drive may be.
*This is meant more as a no pain just for pains sake thing and not a you have to be gentle with me at all times thing. Minor pain as a side effect of rough sex is okay but deliberately inflicting pain on me just to satisfy your sadistic side is not.
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This a mostly just a rant, don't mind me ...
I find myself bothered by the norm of "limits." I do understand that, at heart, they really are good-faith attempts to establish consent. But they seem backwards to me - they put the burden on the submissive to retract consent selectively. To me, any relationship, BDSM or not, should always work the other way. Exploration, of fetishes or otherwise, should start with a set of permissions, which is expanded over time, not a set of limits, which shrinks over time. |
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Some tips for you all:
1. Intelligence is attractive. If your e-mail or profile make you sound like an idiot, you'd better have the hottest pic on this entire site.
2. This is the internet. No disclaimers or warnings you put on your profile actually do anything. If you don't want your information to be used, don't publish it on a publicly viewable website.
3. When you read a profile, don't just skim it and then assume you should act as dominant as possible to impress a sub. Get a feel for them from their profile - if the idea of having nude pics e-mailed to someone is enough to blackmail me, do you really think there's a chance in hell I'm going to be turned on by your public humiliation fantasies? |
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| Age: 28 |
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Colorado |
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