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In any happy relationship there is always that balancing scale of give and take, which makes any relationship successful without it the relationship is doomed!! Even in the BDSM world there is that dynamisym of the give and take going on. The domme gets to do and have things her way, but she also knows that to have a successful union, she must fulfill her slaves needs as well. Without upsetting the balance of dominance and submission! |
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Perfection is highly overrated. As no one has yet to attain it! Some come close that is for sure. But close, just ain't there! No there is no such thing as perfection! Perfection is all in the mind and no where else! |
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Let's be clear about something on here. This is a sex site!! Looking for like minded people! If somebody says something less than respectable, by all means ban that candy ass! But C'mon, lets be for real. We're setting the bar awfully high if you are looking for a goody too shoe intro! It's a freaking sex site not Match.com or Harmony .com Christian meeting .com!! How the hell can you be freaking offended?? Ignore and push the block button. Explanation not needed!!! |
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I recently came clean to myself about why I am still on this site and not on another site less graphic?? I am on the tame ones. But this site offers a unique situation. I find rather awesome! I can be as kinky and freaky as I wish, with boundaries and borders to observe. Rest assured those borders and boundaries will never be crossed by me! While every other accepted kink is on the table with me! And I can express it here with carefree abandonment! There are two ladies I like on here........One day soon one of them will have me as their slave. For I can only serve one mistress at a time......My attention must be on her 24/7 When I am apart from her I can still smell her essence through a crowded Essence store for ladies!! Even a whiff of her is intoxicating I get an immediate erection!!! Very embarrassing while speaking at a seminar!! There are nights I dream of having an all out no holds barred brutal D/s session with the two ladies. One stripped to the waist exposing her sweat soaked large carmel breast, while the othe thick heavyset butt naked whipping the shit of my cock while the other sits on my face allowing me to have my pain and pleasure served up all at once!! With her I want to test my pain threshold safely under her watchful eyes. Until one day there is no threshold nor a safe word only blissful pain and pleasure!To the point that lines are blurred between pain and pleasure! Neither can be experienced, without the other! In other words I get off being whipped pegged and face sat by naked women. I am getting too old to go from one domme to another, and maintain a vanilla relationship with someone else. I am not happy with the vanilla one!! I seek woman who's as kinky and freaky as I am!! I don't care if she's a christian or not.....Hell we all got some kink in us! Just know this what goes on behind closed doors is nobodies business on the outside!! I know my boundaries I know my borders and I am very comfortable living behind them!! I have no need to share my masochistic kink with the rest of the world!! This is one guy who likes his doors to his closet closed and locked! Unlocking and opening it for consensual partners! |
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I love being on here and freely writing what is in my kinky mind! Today was no different than anyother day. In fact kind of bright for a cold autmn greyish overcast day! Other than that I have been busy developing a comix book dedicated to the Underground secret society of Muscular women as dominatrixes! During the off season from the world of competition a former bodybuilder has an island she stocks with Muscular women They train in arduous surroundings a special forces person would be screaming for the exit. No this island is not for the faint of hearts. Punishment is daily occurance to gain entry in to that elite group of Muscular women. Being the worlds best in the world!! Suffering for the 5 months leading up to the competition is nothing short of sadistically hardcore. Many do not finish the training. But there are those who do and they are part of the 1% who knows the hell they went through to gain entrance into that small group!! The Lady Yakamoura Takesheida is the care taker of the special training compound! |
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My dick needs a nice intense heavy spanking with a riding crop! Sometimes though, I feel like having a nice busty woman who likes playing horsey with me on my back and torturing my nipples with a two piece linkeage fastened underneath to my nipple rings. slapping my ass with her crop!! Saying faster faster you fool.....and whap whap whap she slaps my ass yanking on my nipples I carry her all over the house even up and down the stairs!! After an hour of stop and play, she takes her horsey and do what all trainers do cool them down with a nice cool wet spunge filled with water!! |
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My goal in being on here is to find an equally kinky freaky sadistic creative minded mistress To compliment my masochistic submissive/slave nature!! Oh how much fun could be had by all! And yet maintain his alpha male persona away from the home. For it is true a mans home is his castle! However within the walls of the palace inside the queen rules!! .... thus she must always be placated keeping her amused and happy!! When the Queen is happy the palace is happy!! |
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Damn!! This site is really the pits. I was blocked out for the last three weeks now! What the hell is going on?? I missed an important hook up because I could not get in!! This morning I used my old password and got in!! How's that possible?? |
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Okay for those of you whom are looking for love on this site! Really?? Seriously?? PEOPLE this ain't EHarmony or Match.com or Christian Mingle. com! Get real do you really think people would post the kinky shit we post here on those other sites?? Grow up!! Can you imagine joining up with Christian Mingle or the others writing out what you seek? Me?? I'd be sent to the nut farm quick fast and in a hurry! Single masochistic male seeks his "Queen of Pain".......for her to kick his ass night and day and on holidays in her dungeon of love as she enjoys pegging her loyal subject!......I love church, long walks on the beach. Stimulating intellectual conversation is a must!" Yeah I can just see it now somebody coming to my house wrapping me up in a nice white coat with long sleeves and straps!! In other words people keep it real! Be honest with people on here. Bull shit is a waste of time, imagine the fun you could be having if you weren't being such a dick!! |
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Anyone noticing my primary photo will quickly understand what I am into. While this lifestyle is dedicated to the primary edification of worshipping and seeing to the wants and needs of ones owner. One must understand also that while one serves as ones slave sub. They too have needs as well! A Road traveled one way is just that, a one way road! But for both to enjoy the road, both must share the road as well! Does not mean switch up it means both have needs. If only ones needs are satisfied and the other is not. There is going to be an eventual fork in the road as it were.
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I think of all the photos shown in the bdsm groups. I think my primary photo represents me to the letter. Bound in such a way with a hood over my face waiting in fear of the first sting of the riding crop! Such a turn on for me! The only thing missing that would make this even more highly erotic is to have his nipples being pulled by two leashes as well as his cock! Can you imagine the delicious pain he'd suffer while jumping as he is hit! Good god I get a hard on just thinking if it were me!! |
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Sitting here thinking of a Mistress I saw on here a while ago......Gorgeous as hell and a chest so succulent made my mouth water! She's older than I and sexy as hell! While I do communicate with others on here. She is the one I truly long for.....so close and yet soooo far! If she told me to strip butt naked and walk to her house for some 24miles I'd do it. You know how when you read the word " LIMITS Respected!" With her there would be no limits set. I would not want her to set them! Her pleasure is all that I seek to provide her with! I'd do whatever she asked of me. Even if it was something I'd promised myself I would "NEVER EVER DO" That is the effect this woman has on me! I come on here just to gawk at her photos. Though, they are not of her naked they are very sexy. She's taken some down and put others up! I have copied them.......with no sinister intent what so ever! I just found out her page had been hacked. What the fuck is wrong with people??? They have no fucking life so they go around destroying others?? And why is this site unprotected?? They are quick to take down ill gotten photos but slow to protect their members! Not good business sense to me! But I digress. This woman of which I speak. Never have I had this kind of feeling for another person in my life. When I look at her picture both my heart, my brain, my body sings as one! That has never happened to me! I do not know why I am so nervous to meet her. I guess I do not wish to be rejected! I have long sought a woman with her physique and her open mind towards this lifestyle! Never mind what my fantasy is, I would love to explore with her her fantasys, no matter how kinky they were......As I said before there are things I have sworn an oath I would never to do. But there comes a time when one enters anothers life you have second thoughts about that oath! She is that woman! I can't mention her name out of respect for her and yes I am a stickler for discretion!!! She has many friends on here. Most are drawn to her physical appearance as was I! What keeps me from taking that final step? As she is everything I have wanted. Love of being orally satisfied? No! As I to love spending hours pleasuring with my mouth. It is that I am such a freak for corporal punishment! What I have sought most of all is a woman with her physique enjoying administering punishment as much as I love orally pleasuring. It is hard to find some one whom wants one without the other.....I like them both. However does she like incoporating them both or is she just seeking an oral slave and nothing more? That is my conundrum! Because after a good going over I am at my best orally pleasing my mistress! I know this though.......I do have to shit or get off the pot! |
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Allow me to introduce myself! I was known as ToBUsedN'Abused in a previous life. Until the previous group was shall we say for a lack of a better word deleted due to a family argument! And like most families. It is the children ( Us) that suffers the most! However I have returned because I found that I cannot leave this place of fetish filled kinkiness. Yes the other sites are okay. But I think this site offers more real people than others. None judgemental as it were. Is it perfect?? HELL NO!! They gotta up their game a wee bit by not allowing peoples profiles to be hacked as was the case in a previous life! Now on to my kinks..... You will note in the sexuality box that I identify myself as Bi-Sexual......That is not to mean I am into men......I am not!! What it means is, that I love a woman who loves to fuck their men/ slaves/submissives up the ass! Woman wearing a strap on is so damn sexy that it gives me such a hard on!! I am not overly experienced in that department, semi virginal as it were! I find Butch Lesbians are the best with that thing! But I am not at all exclusive to them though! I like a woman who can get up all in my ass and ride it with a vengeance, once she's broken it in! However I want to state here and now though! I am the BOTTOM! Your pleasure is my pleasure. Yes, I will communicate with your for a brief while. However I am very selective with whom I choose to serve! As you should be when seeking a slave/sub! One size does not fit all! And through the course of our getting to know one another. We might find we do not match! That too is okay! Rome was not built in a day! And if some of you are looking for a George Clooney/ Brad Pitt/ Denzel Washington I ain't he! Nor am I Donald Trump or a Bill Gates! Trust me in the real world they would not be on here! That however does mean I am by any means cheap. I am as friends have told me. Generous to a fault. But I have a philosophy. You treat a woman like a queen no matter your financial abilities She will open her heart to you! And if she's smart she'll make you the happiest person on the planet!! Outside in the real world I am more of an alpha dog! Behind closed doors I am a puppy who likes to be led around on a leash and whipped most of the time. Even if I have been a good puppy! It is my fetish/kink! It motivates me to bring home the bacon as it were!..... Allow me to correct something here. I am not interested in anyone under 30! If you try to contact me you will be blocked! 2nd I am not interested in MEN submissive or dominant! And for god sakes I have a penis! If I want to look at one. All I have to do is look down! So please no cock pictures!! ....SMDH!!
This part will be continued as the days and months unfold! I have discovered that one cannot put everything down in one sitting.....So this shall suffice! Take care and be well. |
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I have to admit that I am a very kinky fetish driven person. There are times when I crave a full body whippping front and back.....Especially the front! After a good beating with a belt, sweating profusely . I look in the mirror at my body covered with an array of criss crossing welts from my chest down to my thighs. It causes me to have an enormous erection. Though I am 8 inches in length maximum! My thickness is almost 6" in width! It's then when my ass craves being ravaged by a woman, using a strap on! Riding my ass hard and very rough until I explode wildly all over the place! But I am not done! I bury my face in her pussy devouring her juices as she orgasm in my mouth. PUNISH ME .... OH PUNISH ME!! |
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Here's my thing. If you stop by and look at my profile. Maybe or maybe not we connect! However does not mean one cannot pause a moment to say hi! That is all one has to do! Who knows where it may lead? Nothing ventured, nothing gained! Trust me I will return the favor! I was taught you never know, you may meet your true soul (sole) mate with only a hello! Besides, what harm can it do? Pretend we are like strangers passing each other by on a public street. Our eyes connect I smile, you smile in return! Nothing more needs to be said.... I call it "SMILE FLIRTING!!" And to be honest you are the one whom shall decide how far it will go!! We men think we are masters of the universe.....LOL!! But in reality women hold all the cards! And you ladies decide when and which card to play. Like chess the Queen dominates the board! You women allow us to delude ourselves! And if we stray to far.......you yank on our chain!! |
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