Didn't really know how to fill out all the above. I'm pretty open to almost anything with the right partner. I can be very playful and accommodating to my girl, she needs to be confident or at least honest about her feelings, fears or challenges. Why? because like me, a work in progress.

I know this is a series of adventures and avenues that you or I have not come upon, nor have we done it with one another. Therefore we as partners/team are amateurs. As such there are going to be disappoints, challenges and no matter how perfect it was in our fantasies, we will make mistakes.

But our true character will be defined by how we handle those mistakes. Confiding our fears openly to one another. Listening to each others concerns with open ears arms to hold and if needed hands to fix.

Cause making mistakes and admitting fears means we are doing and not just dreaming. Anyone can do a scene and look like a star if every thing is perfect, that is easy. Unlike fantasy, life is rarely just perfect, it requires work, failures, compromises and adjustments along the way, putting our newly earned experience to the test to make the today, better than yesterday. One day at a time.

I'm not the perfect Dom, I don't know all the lingo or etiquette but I'm real and I'm open and honest, knowing that trust and confidence in one another is needed more than roles themselves or nothing else matters.

I'm a Alpha to world, but a strong constant urge to serve my Girl is all consuming... a walking contradiction...I don't get it, but each day, I get a little more and I think with the right partner, it will come faster and easier, because the highs will be so high and lows, will be so much easier to recover in the arms of another who cares and supports you . Loving me, because I don't know, but I continue anyways and trusting because it flows both ways.