Being a Dominant gives one a true experience of being in control. For me, I love the feeling of respect and control that you get for having a submissive kneel before you and show that you are the superior one. A lot of this lifestyle is mental and once you work on dominating the mind then the body will follow after with ease. However a Dominant must not abuse this power and think they can get away with anything they want just cause they're the Top. Oh no, they must give the same respect back to the submissive and show them that they are human as well.
That is part of my philosophy as a Dominant here. I may be younger then some of the other men here but I certainly have learned and molded my own perspective into one that I am happy about. There are a lot of different type of submissives here and they all have a different aspect of what makes them unique and what they are looking for. However I notice that a lot of girls are always seeking something similar...a Dominant that not only is strict and firm in guiding them but also cares for them at the same time. That is one of the best ways to explain how I am as a Dom.
Now some may call that being a Daddy Dom and I certainly have no problem with that. I have been a Daddy Dom to a few girls and treated them like the little girl they are with love and respect while being firm with them. I have also treated girls similar to that style but without the whole "Little girl" aspect and the Daddy side that much. You can catch a lot more flies with honey then vinegar and that's how I intend to be with most of the submissives here.
However that doesn't mean I don't have a sadistic side as well. I have been known to treat a girl rougher then usual and more like a fuckmeat that she wants to be. I can get that violent and don't mind being like that one bit at all. I am a Dom of many talents that can adapt to almost any situation presented to me so no submissive is out of bounds for me really.
Now after all that one may be wondering what it is that I am seeking here. I am looking for submissives to train, guide, use, or just have fun with. Whatever I can find I will see if it works out and we'll go from there. It can be online or real time as I am flexible to work with any situation like I said. I am also looking for like minded friends to talk with and get to know and even learn more things about. This lifestyle is always a learning experience no matter how many years you have been in it.
Time for the normal stuff now. I can be considered a bit of a geek or a nerd. I love video games, anime, manga, and other stuff like that. I love chess as well. I also enjoy bowling, baseball, and watching a ton of other sports like soccer, tennis, etc. I'm rather laid back and love to have a good time just relaxing and being myself.
If you have any questions you want to ask or feel like talking feel free to send a message. I'm usually around someplace and get back to my messages rather quickly or can even be found in some of the chatrooms. Don't be a stranger and who knows, we might just be able to have something special.
