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kneel4u73
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| I am seeking a submissive, slave or little for my sexual and physical pleasure. I love so many aspects of the BDSM lifestyle, and have been fortunate to experience pretty much everything I have ever wanted to explore - that experience has served me well in clarifying what will work for me right now, and on into the future. I have special people in my life already, those who serve me, and those I play with, and ongoing lifestyle friends - that's not going to change, but it's time to expand and add a new layer to my already busy life....so let me tell you what would delight me......
I am open to meeting someone who desires to enter into a relationship based on reality, not fantasy. A real relationship which has core values which are central to all good partnerships - including vanilla - which include honesty, integrity, emotional availability, open communication and a desire to provide mutual happiness. Of course there are different kinds of relationships, ranging from friendship through to life partnership.
Layered on top of that core relationship will be a D/s power exchange - a separate layer but always present. The term power exchange has many nuances and means different things to different people, so let me define a little more specifically what it means to me. It means that the submissive/slave partner has has committed to giving me the power to choose, direct and guide the development of the D/s relationship. In return, I accept that power and the responsibility which goes with it - to actively engage in accepting her submission, to set expectations and schedules, to provide training and to monitor progress, giving correction where needed.
What this looks like in practice is a D/s interaction focussed on service - on making my life easier or more pleasant in whatever way I desire. In accepting the power, I will ensure that it is used to my benefit. The submissive's need to serve and to submit will be accepted, developed and nurtured, but completely on my terms. The rewards are in the service itself, and the measure of success is purely my own level of satisfaction in the service provided. Exemplary, thoughtful and freely-given acts of service make me very happy. When I know that my submissive is focussed on acting always in my best interests, I am pleased and content.
This is not about fetishes or kinks, or S&M play, but about control and about consensual power exchange. It doesn't mean that I have no interest in fetishes, kinks and S&M play, but they are separate and negotiable aside from the power dynamic described above.
The role of submissive, slave or little in this dynamic is a tough one - this is definitely NOT for the fetishist or for one who seeks to have her fantasies fulfilled. Whilst it is more likely to suit someone who has had enough experience in the lifestyle to have worked through some of those fantasies already, a complete beginner who has a clear knowledge of her own core need to please as the motivator for service would also be considered. Age open - what matters to me is your reasons for wanting to serve.
Happy to make contact with anyone in Melbourne who would like to learn more about what I want or expect, or just to meet and see if there is any personal connection - as stated above, this is not just about play, and is not just about the power exchange - there has to be a commonality of core values sufficient to sustain a real-life relationship as well as the D/s dynamic and all the other fun stuff as well.
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Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to all my kinky and submissive/slave friends, aquaintances and potential play partners> Stay safe and keep on smiling. Remember there is a fine line between pleasure and pain but sometime one complements the other!!! |
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| Age: 28 |
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