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Pan Male Master, 47,  Mears, Michigan
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In real life, those with real power don't carry bullwhips or ride Harleys. Because the truly powerful don't need to be so ostentatious, the same way the truly rich don't run around with gigantic gold chains around their necks the way those who merely want to be rich do. Politicians are powerful, because they can convince you to do things you wouldn't otherwise do, willingly, joyfully. Real power is seductive, not blunt.

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“There is love in me the likes of which you've never seen, and yet there is rage in me the likes of which should never escape. If I can not satisfy the one, I will indulge in the other.”- Mary Shelley, Frankenstein

Dominant commanding man here whose got experience under his belt I prefer my boys submissive and eager to please, and yet honest and caring too.

I get into role-playing - (not dungeons and dragons - but I do that with friends too, and if you happen to be geek - well that's bonus points for you!). I am into the father and son role-playing/relationships too - as I have said, I am dynamic.

Endowed and pretty thick ( 7 1/2 x7" uncut).

, very strong (if you think I'm all fat - guess again, I can lift almost my own body weight - can you?) non-judgemental, open-minded, caring, controlling, aggressive (yes I said that before), free-willing, spur of the moment kind of person, and very creative sexually or otherwise.

I craft my own bondage gear, and I have constructed a very strong wooden "box" that is truly better than a cage - isolation, outside and deprivation - what's better?

Lastly, I am Pansexaul (if you don't know - look it up). Cause of that, I am attracted to many things, including gay, women and transgendered I don't limit myself.

I have a very high libido - and when I cannot have sex, I put that energy to work - and get much accomplished. I'm the kind of man who the more sex I have the more I can do - my body size has never been an issue for me or anyone else - in fact many I've met desire a big hulk like me to some of the skinnier men - when they call me Papa bear - it's with admiration and devotion.












 Dominant Male



 6' 3"

 475 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

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