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I am a Leather Daddy, a Bear, a sadistic Top, and a nerd. I live leather but like everyone make mistakes along the way, although dominant I work hard to not fall in to the trap of being domineering or a douche. I am always happy to talk about Leather, kink, and discuss each and every letter in the acronym B.D.S.M. or even talk about what who a Daddy is, at least as I see it.
When I figured out I was a Leather Daddy it was comforting, It allowed me to understand why I approach the relationships in my life the way I do. I had a tough time understanding what that concept means to me and the people that are important to me in our lifestyle.
I look at Leather as a shared history, a collection of protocols and a requirement to both use the manners that I was taught as a young man and behave in as moral a manner as I am able. I wish I had started living leather a long time ago, although a hard path it would have kept me out of a lot of big trouble.
I dont expect everyone I know to be Leather.
Simply put, this is the way I am choosing to walk my path.
a) I dont judge others on their path choices and
b) I dont expect you to be Leather.
I like to play with medical fetish toys (sounds, speculums, etc.), so much so that I have a kinky doctors office in my basement. I like to also play with vacuum toys and electro-stim, and know how to do it safely. I absolutely love giving spankings, and floggings. I also enjoy humiliation and degradation play plus all kinds of role play. I enjoy sharps play. I enjoy using restraints and get a kick out of dilemma bondage, though I respect others passion for rope I dont have the patience for extremely elegant rope bondage, give me a pile of restraints or vet wrap any day!
A special favorite of mine is repeated forced orgasms. I love making a woman cum, and cum and cum.
I play safe, I respect safe words. On top of all of that I try really hard to make sure I dont buy in to my own shit, I still try to listen and learn and am open to other peoples viewpoints, needs, desires and fantasies. That does not mean that I dont make mistakes and let people down but when I do I try damn hard to fix it. I really enjoy talking about the lifestyle and enjoy the connection and dynamic between a bottom and Top.
Hard lines for me are
*Nothing illegal
*No scat (hello, Two girls one cup, yuck)
*Safe words required (RYG is just fine for me)
* No amputation play
*Negotiation about the scene that we both are able to understand and agree to
I ascribe to RACK rather than SSC , primarily because sane is one of those funny consensus words like normal that I find problematic, consider what standard we use to determine sane. Mine? Yours? Your grandmothers?
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