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BigBlueMonster

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Male, D/s lifestyle dominant, and on rare occasions, pleasant company. I wouldn't describe myself as your stereotypical dominant; I don't wear leather, boots, capes, or have in my possession a utility belt from which I can carry my various BDSM accessories. I wear khakis, jeans, t-shirts, generally like to walk barefoot in the privacy of my own home. I'm all about comfort and convenience. Overall I'd consider myself a fairly relaxed individual, with a stable job, a place to call home, and a modest intellect... TO RIVAL THE HEAVENS! Just kidding. And really, I do enjoy humor; one needs a plentiful supply in the grim face of reality. This isn't my first foray into the glamorous world of skank and spank, and I like to think I've picked up on some useful knowledge along the way. I'm not looking for casual sex with random partners, married women, or women with children, and hopefully the reasons are somewhat apparent. What I am looking for is an attractive submissive woman who enjoys my company as a friend that I can have a relationship with. How novel.
What do I enjoy, you might be asking yourself? I like to write erotica, read science fiction, watch movies, play pool, video games, discuss politically incorrect topics, and try things that you can only do with two people without appearing creepy. Boring, right? Get to the kink, you bastard! I don't drink, smoke, nor am I religious in any sense of the word. However, I do respect those who can believe in something larger than themselves, but I admit I'll get jealous if it's not me! Besides, I'm looking forward to when Zombie Jesus returns to claim the living for his endless army of the dead! I am politically aware, but not inclined to associate myself with any particular party or philosophy. My general viewpoint is that with the right people and attitude, any ideology can work when given the proper attention. Freedom without virtue can be as damaging to a mind as an oppressed spirit, so take from that what you will. So here's my take on the D/s dynamic, as I feel many in this lifestyle have vastly different perspectives on it. First and foremost, I like being dominant with women because I enjoy having control in conjunction with her trust and consent, and I expect that she enjoys the same dynamic from the opposite side. Being a dominant person does not make me perfect, nor does it imply that I am better than the individual in question. If you're a submissive because you feel worthless, cannot control your behavior, or are a co-dependent, that doesn't make you submissive...just a head case in need of intense psychotherapy. I've met more than my share of successful and driven women who enjoy being submissive because it gives them pleasure- if the measure of a dominant's worth is the size of their bank account and the kind of sports car they drive, there are plenty of mine shafts to dig gold in Canada. Good luck with that! So in the end it comes down to respect, and what attributes in potential partners you look for. Some of the things I really enjoy with my bowl of lifestyle D/s and women are: collars and leashes, ballgags, heels, short skirts and slutty outfits, blonds and redheads, dirty talk, humiliation, degradation, eye/speech restriction, body worship, begging like a bitch, and probably lots of other compromising situations that aren't immediately springing to my mind right now. I'm not particularly keen on painsluts or excited about delivering physical punishment, but I do enjoy pulling hair and spanking a tight ass. Comments or questions are welcome. The beatings will continue until morale improves!

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5/14/2012 12:03:04 AM

"Nice legs. What time do they open?"


4/19/2012 8:38:40 PM

"What's worse than a male chauvinist pig? A woman that doesn't do what she's told."


4/17/2012 9:53:31 PM

"If you don't control your mind, someone else will."

-John Allston

 


2/12/2012 10:52:07 AM

Why settle for Mr. right when you can have Mr. Restraining Order?


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slaves4whore1
 
 Age: 29
 Ontario, Canada