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Hetero Male Dominant, 51,  Los Angeles, California
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you stand before the mirror.
As your robe slips from your shoulders and falls to the floor, you admire your nakedness.
you caress your breasts, wincing slightly as your fingers pass over the lovely bruises that remind you of our recent passion.
The marks are slightly fading now, and you grow moist as you recall how they were placed there.
*I am His,* you blush silently.
*His* echoes in your head.
*His,* as you slither sensuously to Me across the floor.
*His,* as you kneel proudly at My feet.
*His,* as you present yourself to Me.
*His,* secure in the knowledge of how deeply I cherish you
*His,* as you bare your soul to Me.
*His,* as you allow Me to stretch your limits and bring you to new heights of ecstasy and depths of trust.
*His,* as you feel the security and utter freedom of your surrender
*His,* as you strive to please Me.
*Mine,* you hear Me whisper as you succeed.

If these images appeal to you, we may appeal to each other.

I do not care for labels, and would not term myself a *lifestyle* Dom nonetheless, submissives I have known describe me as naturally Dominant, and *the most Dominant man i have known,* which gives me both pleasure and secret amusement. Although I only discovered the *scene* later in my adulthood, it is fair to say that I have, in many aspects, been Dominant my entire life. What most would term the mental aspects of Ds BDSM, and some of the milder physical aspects of BDSM, have been present in all my romantic relationships. I am quite fond of biting, am very adept at spanking, and have also enjoyed mild bondage, hot wax, clamps, and orgasm control, among other things. I am experienced with hypnosis, and I have studied the artistry of the single-tail whip with the renowned Robert Dante.

I have a wide range of interests, including music--I have a classically trained singing voice, and have played several instruments--dancing, scuba diving, motorcycling, and movies. I am educated with a professional doctorate, but smart enough to know that intelligence is not measured by educational achievement. I am intelligent, compassionate, talented, artistic, adventurous, sensual, sensitive but masculine, intuitive, moderately well traveled, fun, and witty. I am well read, well rounded, well spoken, well ined, and well...single.

My submissive or slave will have a pleasing combination of looks, intelligence, compassion, sensuality, sexuality, and sense of humor. She will be willing to experiment with me and explore herself and our relationship. She will be able to stimulate my intellect as well as she does my libido. She will have opinions, and be able to respectfully share them, even when they disagree with my own, but will always gracefully accept my decisions. She will always support me and challenge me to be my best however, she is not a brat continually testing my authority--once earned, her surrender is given freely and completely.

I am also open to pairing with a Dominant or switch female, as long as she understands that I do not switch, and her Dominant traits could only be exercised over another submissive or slave female we brought into our relationship.

Im looking for someone who will really knock my socks off for a potentially long-term relationship. If you respond to my ad, please include a photo with your response. If we hit it off, be prepared to talk on the telephone within a week or two, and if that goes well, meet within a reasonably short period of time I have no interest whatsoever in carrying on an online fantasy relationship.












 Dominant Male

 Los Angeles 


 6' 3"

 205 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Female


A Poly Household


 Fine Dining


 Musical Theater



 Horseback Riding


 Scuba Diving

 Breast Play

 Rear End Play

 Being Massaged

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Hair Pulling

 Orgasm Control

 Spanking you


 Intellectual Discourse



 Classical Music



 Opera Music



 Rock Music

 Show Tunes


 Going to the Opera







 Blindfolding you


 Canes and Crops

 You wearing my collar


 Electrical Play


 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage


 Wax Play




 1950s Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard


 Curious About:

 Fire Play



 Suspension Bondage


 Licensed Attorney

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