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I am an asexual bottom looking for non-romantic play dates.I am sex-repulsed. Sex is a hard limit. I love tight restraints, leather and rubber, hoods, muzzles, gags, and much more. The more restrictive and inescapable, the happier I am. Once you have me trapped, I'm yours to tease, torture, and humiliate to your heart's content. I am willing to travel to parts of CT, NY, MA, RI and possibly VT, NH, PA, and NJ. I cannot host.?If you aren't in one of those places, don't message me, unless I say in my journal that I'm traveling to your area. I am open to meeting people of any gender, or couples. All my messaging is done here. I don't give out my other contact information, so please don't ask for yahoo, kik, or my phone number. After a few exchanged messages, if there is still mutual interest we need to meet or I will move on.?

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5/4/2022 8:34:50 AM

You can find me and more photos on fetlife as NicoleCT. 


2/24/2018 4:28:58 PM
Does anyone else find having a safeword to be horribly distracting? I want to feel trapped and helpless, but knowing I have the power to stop a scene with a single word makes it tough to get into a good headspace. 

2/16/2018 4:52:52 PM
What's with all these guys thinking they deserve to be called sir or master when we haven't even met yet? I'm not your sub until I choose you're worth submitting to, and you're not going to prove you are in the first message. 

We have to see the human in each other before we see the dom or the sub. Otherwise it isn't going to work out. 

1/9/2018 8:08:15 PM
A lot of people ask me about dildos, plugs, and vibrators. Yes I use them. They're great humiliation tools. Some inexperienced doms seem to think they're a  substitute for sex. Nothing makes for a more boring session.

8/2/2016 12:25:18 PM
I had a hell of a dream the other night. Someone, I don't remember a face or even if they were a man or a woman, took me for a leisurely stroll downtown. We went in a few shops and stopped at a cafe. I didn't have a choice but to follow, led around at the end of a leash. I wore a tight muzzle and my arms were trapped behind me in an armbinder that reached from the tips of my fingers all the way up to my shoulders. It wasn't tight, but it didn't have to be. I wasn't getting it off. The only other thing I wore was a tight black corset. Oh, it was humiliating. All those looks of disgust passers by cast my way made me feel like I was something less than human.

7/13/2016 6:57:09 PM
I've been getting a lot of messages lately from people who are curious about what it means to be asexual and sex-repulsed. I'll talk a little bit about it in this entry, but feel free to message me if you have any more questions.

Asexuality is a sexual orientation where an individual feels no sexual attraction towards people of any other gender. I like to compare it to the way heterosexual (straight) people feel towards people of their own gender. Asexuality pertains only to sexual attraction. Asexuals can feel romantic or aesthetic attraction, they can still have a sex drive, and many still opt to have sex, whether it be to fulfill their own sex-drive, or to please their partner. It gets kind of complicated when you start getting into the different subsets of asexuality, such as demisexuality or gray-asexuality, but I'm not going to get into that here. The concept to take away is that asexuality is only about attraction, not action.

Asexuals, or aces for short, vary in how they feel about the action of having sex. Many aces enjoy having sex, regardless of the fact that they don't feel sexual attraction toward other people. These people are sex-positive. Others are indifferent to sex. It simply doesn't matter that much to them, and they can go with or without it. These people are sex-indifferent. Some like myself are sex-repulsed. They are the ones who want nothing to do with sex. Personally I find the idea of having sex with someone else mortifying. Lastly, there are those who may be any one of the three depending on the situation. The best way to describe them is circumstantial.

The important thing about all this is to remember that anyone can fall anywhere on the spectrum between those four extremes, regardless of orientation.

I hope this helps those of you that are curious. As I said, feel free to pop in my inbox if you want to talk about it some more.

6/24/2016 5:16:21 AM
I've been getting bombarded with messages since coming back, so if I haven't gotten back to you yet, I'm sorry!
On another note, I suppose asking those of you who obviously don't bother to read profiles to refrain from contacting me would fall on deaf ears, eh?

6/22/2016 1:58:33 PM
Back again. It's been a while, and I've got a substantial amount of catching up to do. School was pretty intense this past semester with 18 credits, but somehow got through it and even made it on the dean's list! Never thought I'd manage that again. Recently had to quit a job with an abusive employer, so I'm free on weekends for the first time in years.
Meanwhile, the itch has been getting more persistent and I'm long overdue to spend some quality time in unforgiving restraint. Hit me up if you'd like to have a prisoner for a day!

7/31/2015 6:18:26 AM
Currently wearing a ball gag covered with some foam padding and a scarf over the mouth, hooded, and muzzled with a tight leather belt on top. TGIF

5/22/2015 6:15:13 PM
Call me old-fashioned, but is proper grammar too much to ask? I'm not expecting a marvel of the English language here, but please realize that the first message you send me is my first impression of you. I'm not talking about the occasional typo. When I see 'txt' talk or worse yet, messages . . . that are written. . . like this. . . , it gives off the impression that you're aren't taking this seriously, and I sincerely want to believe that isn't the case for the majority of you. If English is not your first language, I understand, but please let me know if that's the case. 

4/27/2015 3:10:45 PM
When the post office delivers your new dildo to the wrong address. . .

3/17/2015 2:20:57 PM
I am not willing to share pictures without speaking with people for a while at least. Just because you are willing to openly share your pic doesn't mean you should shame me into sharing mine. I will share, but only after we've  been conversing for a bit. Thanks for your understanding.

2/18/2015 4:04:18 PM
Please note I have chat requests blocked.

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Begg4ME
 
 Age: 42
  Colorado