Collarspace.com

Greetings everyone and thank you for taking the time to look at my profile :)
My apologies for the length - I just wanted to be totally clear. I am male from Berkshire - well adjusted, educated, happy, relatively successful and motivated. I have some good people around me and if I am honest - I enjoy life - both the tough times and the good ones. I am not really sure if this is the best place for me or whether the description of me as a sub is strictly true but it was the best option I think. The reason I am on this site is that I have had a desire (from a very young age) to play with, massage, kiss and pamper the feet of women I find attractive. Even back when I was child I remember sitting under the table and trying to hold my aunts feet - the fascination has never left me but out of sheer embarassment (or fear of being laughed at) I have never spoken to anyone about it. I have had several relationships (3 of which have been relatively long term) but even in those I shied away from the subject. I don't know what the cause of my fascination is but what I do know is that I am finally at a point in my life where I can stop hiding from it. The internet in all its wondrous oddity has shown me that I am not alone and that has meant that I am now fully prepared to go the the next stage and fulfill what has been a life long fantasy. The other problem I find myself faced with is twofold: 1. Most women who seem to enjoy their feet being pampered and touched are dominants who seem to like to express their domination in a physical and verbal way. That doesn't work for me. I believe in sexual equality, I don't want to do this because I feel I am less of a person for being a man - I just want to do it because I love the look and feel of a pretty females feet. 2. Secondly, it seems that having any sort of moral stand point runs counter to the BDSM ethic. I don't believe in "pro dommes" or "tributes" being exchanged. In my opinion, this tacit support for the sex trade opens the doors to other more extreme operators who then fill the gap in the markey with what is essentially, slave labour. I work hard and enjoy the material security of that hard work but I am not prepared to become another number in the sex trade. So what am I looking for? Essentially my search centres around a woman (who would be my equal (although I accept that she may have dominant, submissive or switch tendencies). I would like her to adore having her feet and legs played with, pampered, kisses and caressed. I would like her to look after her feet (my particular kink is for beautiful feet with beautifully painted toes - a nice dark colour - and woman who knows how to tease me with them). I would like to organise a time for us to meet where I would be able to play, massage, kiss and suck at your feet - all the while you could lie back and relax. Just imagine the most soothing foot massage ever :) Everything else I am open to discussing. If you have made it all the way down here then doubly well done for sticking at it! Any questions, just ask me.
S xxxx
Regina34