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I do not know what to write here. I have never been one to talk about myself, preferring to let my actions speak for me. Well I suppose I should start with the basics.
In my 24 years that I have embraced this lifestyle. I have found being dominant is not a replacement for having a personality. The fact of the matter is that dominance is just another part of my overall personality.
Anyone can intimidate people with their gruff manners and abruptness. This is not dominance, creating in someone the desire to obey requires a subtle seduction. It can be achieved by being both confident in yourself and elegant in your manner.
First and foremost, a dominant is always a Gentleman. There is no excuse for being impolite or rude to others. I believe that respect has to be given to be earned.
Second, a dominant must remember that submission is a gift. To misuse this gift is abusive. When the submissive is not free to take back the gift it is no longer a gift.
Third, a dominant should always honest. To lie is to show you cannot be trusted and a submissive must be able to trust you to respect you. You may not get "that" submissive but you will not lose her respect.
Fourth, a dominant accepts responsibility for all his actions. Everyone makes mistakes; do what is needed to make amends, and correct it. Accept and admit the fact that you messed up.
Fifth, a dominant to watch over and protect all submissives. To insure the submissive knows what being abusive is, as well as what the submissive's rights are. To insure this is to insure the submissive knows when to call it quits.
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