i'm going to try and explain how it is i found about about the lifestyle and what it is that attracts me to it. It's probably not that exciting but i may as well spill all haha.

When i was a child, i enjoyed playing cops and robbers, Batman and Robin role playing games with my friends. But instead of being the hero, i liked being the one who was captured and tied up. My friends all thought i was wierd that i was volunteering myself to be tied up, but i didn't care. i didn't know why i liked it, and i still don't really, but as we got older my friends and i didn't play those sorts of games anymore. But that didn't stop me.

i first experienced self bondage when i was 12. i found some cotton rope (i think?) and began experimenting with different ties. it was in self bondage that i had my first orgasm. It scared me as i wasn't sure what had just happened, but it was such a great feeling. my eyes rolled and flickered and i felt physically exhausted like i'd just played a game of rugby. Early in my self bondage exploration i had an embarrassing moment when my dad caught me with my legs tied up just i had started one of my sessions. He laughed, thinking that i was trying to become the next Houdini haha.

While i was tied up, i would dream about girls being tied up with me. Although i loved being tied up, i found the thought and site of a woman or girls tied up extremely sexy (and still do hehe). Then one day i saw a documentary on TV3 about the world of BDSM (i think it was David Blyth, but can't be sure?). This opened up a whole new world to me and helped assure me that there were others out there that are like me and enjoy being tied up. It also opened my mind other aspects of BDSM play that i didn't know about, but was curious about. So, years later, here i am, still searching, learning and wanting to push boundaries and taboo's :)

i'm back searching for a Mistress to serve and so being proactive, i'm going to try and sell myself to any potential Mistresses out there :)

Being relatively young may put some Mistresses off. i personally have no issues with age gaps and i think that my age is a benefit to You, as i'm willing to learn and expand my limits, which obviously haven't been pushed too far. i also learn quickly, with direction and correction of course haha.

Patience is one of my strongest qualities as i understand that choosing the right sub is not a decision that is taken lightly by most Mistresses. i'm also polite and respect any decision that You make. 

Right now, i'm only looking for a casual arrangement/play partner, as i have many other interests outside of BDSM. But i wouldn't rule out something developing into a long term arrangement/relationship, if i met the right woman. 

i believe i have the right attitude to be a good sub and i would love the chance to prove to You that i have the qualities that i have mentioned as well as others.

If You would like to contact me, please do, even if it's just for a casual chat about anything and everything, kinky and non kinky. i'm just a normal guy that just happens to like being tied up :)