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Pan Male Submissive, 30,  Upstate, New York
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Ben00010

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Educated erudite well read submissive (switch on occasion) looking for a real relationship with real power exchange. I dont have a do me list or expect a domme to be a kink dispensary.

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 Ben00010

 Submissive Male

 Upstate 

 New York

 6' 3"

 230 lbs

 30

 Pan

 Caucasian

 11/15/12

 

Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Friends Only

 Loves:

 Bicycling (Expert)

 Martial Arts (Expert)

 Blindfolds

 Body Worship

 Bondage

 Breast Play

 Cages

 Collars

 Corsets

 Genital Punishment

 Gags

 Humiliation

 Leashes

 Orgasm Denial

 Queening

 Sensory Deprivation

 Stockings

 Vibrators

 Comedy Shows

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)

 Nutrition (Expert)

 Baseball

 Boxing

 Football (Expert)

 Kick Boxing (Expert)

 Skiing

 Swimming

 Volleyball

 Likes:

 Weightlifting

 Begging

 Canes and Crops

 Hoods

 Massage (Giving)

 Objectification

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Speech Restrictions

 Chess

 Sitcoms

 Psychology (Expert)

 Body Building

 Tolerates:

 Chastity

 Curious About:

 Anal Play

 Exhibitionism

 Outdoor Bondage

 Strap-Ons

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Watersports

 Hates:

 Diapers

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Journal Entries:
4/7/2018 7:33:00 AM
I think using money to establish a power dynamic is artificial and a shortcut at best. if you're a dominant asking why you should provide a service for free when you can charge for it, you're already on a different model. subs could theoretically go work for Handy or some such if they really wanted to clean and get paid for it. 

we do things for friends and lovers that we would charge strangers for all the time e.g. i listen to my friend or girlfriend complain about her day because i care, not because i could be a therapist and charge money for it. 

9/4/2017 12:53:33 PM
always happy to chat about a book I've read or something interesting (preferably not politics or the news). feel free to ask me about the last book I read

8/17/2017 11:31:47 AM
why do dommes bury the lede? you read an entire profile and it isn't until the last line or two where there's mention of tribute. often there isn't even a mention of tribute. often it's something vague like "my time is valuable" or some cryptic language about sessions. I'm not judging pro dommes (in this entry) just wondering why some seem so set on deception.  

8/16/2017 2:44:18 PM
it would be really nice if this site could label and filter pro-dommes. ugh...

4/19/2017 5:22:31 PM
take my money? that's easy anyone can do that. capture my loyalty or garner my respect, i dare  you

3/17/2015 12:40:35 PM
Ugh so bored at work

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