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**I have been in the lifestyle for over 12 yrs., I am mostly a Sensual since I prefer giving the pleasurable pain over the painful pain.**

**I have always been a Giver within the relationships with Subs as well as with a Slave. Giving takes on many s time, attention, patience, quality, experience, knowledge, caring, trust, loyalty, all positive aspects in and within themselves.**

**I am Patrick, divorced, no children.
six foot and 2 inches tall, average build, short black hair (with a white patch), blue eyes, clean shaven, no piercings or tattoos.
Non smoker or drugs, drink rarely.

Bday Dec. 9
Zodiac sign Sagittarius
Chinese Animal Dragon**

**I am intelligent, have a great sense of humor, enjoy engaging in conversation.
Creativity, imagination, inquisitive, enjoy Q A, general or specific.
It all leads to conversations of quality and depth.**

**I have a wide variety of interests.
Reading, writing, movies, music, paranormal studies, history, mythology, outdoors, thunderstorms, stargazing, pool, tech, board and card games, the list goes on.**

**I have an adventurous personality, as well as a desire to explore and discover new experiences.**

**I am looking for the best of both worlds.
A vanilla relationship that everyone on the outside sees, as well as a BDSM relationship that we share together.
BUT, we both bring 100 percent of ourselves to the relationship, not a 50 percent to 50 percent, but a true and honest 100 percent from both.
If you cannot give 100 percent of yourself, then why bother at all?**

**I identify as a Sensualist.
More so as Sensual who is exploring, pleasure is my main focus, but I do like spankings, floggings, mental as well as physical disciplines and bondage.


**I have many kinks on my Fetish list, adding more as I experience and explore.
Check them out. If you have any questions, feel free to ask. **

**MANDATORY, WITHOUT EXCEPTIONS, I DO NOT AND WILL NOT SHARE.**

**IF you are in a relationship, FWB, have multiple partners,
READ THIS I AM NOT INTERESTED.**

**I want to be with someone who actually VALUES the relationship that we are in. Not as one of convenience, that they have a little free time here and there as their schedule allows. But in ALL ASPECTS of their lives. I want to be included in the BDSM side, as well as the vanilla side. I want to be included in their social outings and gatherings, be known to their family and friends, have them WANT the same with MINE.**

**I am not going to be your dirty little secret that you hide away because you are embarrassed what others might think if they found out what you are into behind closed doors (or in public areas with the least inquisitive eyes). If you are with me, then you will be on all levels.**

**Although I will NOT rush into anything with anyone, I prefer to actually get to them on a level before engaging in any BDSM related activity. That will take time, depending on how often we communicate, our interests (singular or mutual), strength of compatibility, conversations, etc.**

**I have standards, morals and respect for myself as well as others I am talking to. If YOU dont have any of these same standards yourself? I will have NO INTEREST in talking to you.**
**YOU show me the PROPER respect, then you get it in return.**

**I have been reluctant to say what has been on my mind for awhile now. Through experiences I have had, relationships I have endured, reading and research of the topics as well as observing how others are involved within the Life.**

**But I refuse to keep my opinions about this to myself any longer, since these are my thoughts you may either take them with a grain of salt, or actually read them in their entirety with an open-mind, not just roll your eyes and blip past the first paragraph and onto to another section.**

**FAR too many people speak to others with such disrespect and Insolence that you have to wonder how they even exist in the outside world without being beaten to within an inch of their lives. There is NO excuse for such rudeness of behavior, especially when talking to someone who IS showing you respect in the first place. The behavior is appalling to say the least. IF you do not have the MANNERS that you should have been taught growing up, then either look it up and learn, or keep your mouth shut (and typing fingers off the keyboard).**

**I cant stress this point enough, I will NOT tolerate being disrespected on ANY level.**

**Honesty, Loyalty, Trust, Openness, as is a willingness to Communicate is a necessity.**

**Be a good Communicator, be Caring about the well being (Mental, Physical, Emotional) of your Partner.**

**Show some Integrity, Intelligence, to do what is not only outlined within the dynamic, but what you actually led them to believe in the beginning.**

**Deceit, Lying, Deceptiveness, Cheating, Distrust, Betrayal, Greed, all should not be involved within the dynamic or Life that both people CHOSE to be a part of and AGREED to be involved with.**

**If you cant be honest with me, then please dont talk to me at all. I dont want to have to figure out what you tell me is true or made up. Yes, this happens far too frequently.**

**This isnt meant to be for a discussion on any terms, so save writing to me and ranting about how you dont agree with what I have said.**

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katebbb
 
 Age: 37
  California