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Pan Female Dominant, 56,   , Florida
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Do not address me as Mistress, I will not respond.

Many of you may recognize me, as I have been seeking my one for the last several years. During that time I have literally spoken to hundreds of people and at times have almost given up, but I cannot help but think that somewhere out there is the person to whom this message is intended.

Before I start going into great detail of what I am seeking, a few things I absolutely am NOT interested in:

No crossdressers, I am not into my partner wearing panties or sissification.

No diapers.

No poly.

No swingers.

No one under 45, exceptions possible if you've decided you do not want any more children.

No scat.

No smokers.

No excessive drinking.

No asexual or impotent.

No significant unadressed mental issues. I'm perfectly fine with someone who is on medication or in active therapy.

No Dominants, unless you have changed your mindset in regards to the partner you seek. I am not a switch. I am also not looking for a co-top type of relationship.

No doormats, or someone who identifies as chattel . I find no joy in simply having a warm body around to wait on me hand and foot; while I certainly want someone to enrich my life I am seeking a partner who is service oriented; not just a domestic.

Who am I and why am I being so specific on my desires?

That's simple. I am a 56 year old Dominant woman who has been in the lifestyle since the age of 18 and will no longer settle for "almost". I would rather be alone than with the wrong person, or even worse - alone within a relationship.

I have a full time job in a traditionally male oriented field that I absolutely love and am no longer seeking to leave the Jacksonville Florida area anytime soon, though can see myself relocating a few years from now. Preferably around the Carolinas.

I am a Creative and find inspiration in many places; including relationships. I chose the name BelovedMuse because I am seeking mine and wish to fuel the passions of my future partner as well. I have a blog and the majority of the writing is a true depiction of my life experiences. The name of the blog is Musings of the Wicked should you care to take a look.

I am sober and an extroverted introvert. While I enjoy socializing I prefer smaller groups as opposed to stadiums these days.

I love doing volunteer work when I have time and have a rescue pup who I take with me everywhere that I can.

My pictures are all recent and unaltered. If you are contacting me please provide recent clothed pictures as mutual attraction is important to me. If you send me a cock picture you will absolutely be blocked, all I care about in regards to that particular appendage is that it works. I am a sapiosexual and MUCH more interested in what you have between your ears. Full disclosure: currently I feel I am too thin and would absolutely love to find a partner who is into physical fitness and could help me achieve my goal of gaining lean muscle.

All of that being said, I am a deeply complex creature but also a very fluid one. As noted on my previous profile I am seeking the man who can romance the Woman, acquiesce to the Domme and Satiate the Sadist. I seek that strong, Alpha Dragonslayer of a man whose only real weakness is me. One who identifies as primal and loves nothing more than to fall down the rabbit hole for hours on end and come out of it exhausted, sweaty, bruised, spent, and deeply satisfied. My general demeanor is very caring, playful and passionate. I am a highly sexual individual. I also have a very dark, predatory side which I describe as "Dexter in a dress." My predator loves nothing more than to sink her teeth into willing prey but as I do not play casually she waits for the appropriate one.

Communication, consistency and respect are very important to me. I am not interested in a penpal or endless messages back and forth with no specific goals in mind. If you are not local or are unable to relocate here please understand we would not be a good fit. I am seeking someone with whom I can start building a relationship with and long distance is not realistic for me.

I will not engage in primarily sexual based conversations before establishing compatability and mutual interest. The lifestyle is a large part of who I am but not everything. I want to know what makes you tick outside of kink.

All in all I am seeking a well rounded relationship DRENCHED in kink. I have been open about my lifestyle for over twenty five years and am quite confident and happy with who and what I am. I detest labels and refuse to be called Mistress. In the past I've been addressed as Miss, Ma'am, Goddess, Miss Bella and even Daddy - which was actually my favorite.

I am playful but deeply dark in nature when it comes to play and will hurt you, but would never harm you. The predator side will bathe in your fear and uses pain as an aphrodisiac and afterwards the empath will lovingly soothe you and nurture you back together.

It's a beautiful balance.












 Dominant Female



 5' 2"

 118 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Sub / Slave Male


 Violating your rear

 Confining you in rope or chains

 Disciplining you with a cane

 You being my domestic servant

 Erotic Hypnosis

 You doing all of the housework

 Medical fetish play

 Total control over your orgasms

 You never being allowed to have pleasurable orgasms

 You servicing me with your mouth

 Spanking you

 Dominating you with a strap-on


 Female Led Relationships

 Working Out


 You worshiping my anus

 You worshiping my body

 Having you pierced for the installation of a chastity device

 Punishment enemas


 Punishing your male parts

 You massaging me

 Humiliating you

 Modern Primitivism


 Hard Limits:





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