Ugh.  I guess I need to be more specific.  Yes, the profile says switch.  I will add a side note that I prefer to bottom in public play and with people I am friendly with and top from the comfort of my own home.  Its pretty rare that I feel the need to "serve"...in other words...please don't approach me as your potential sub. 

I am not being snotty...just honest.  No, I don't want to help you cheat on your wife, I don't want to be the third in your poly science experiment, I do not want to be your party favor and I don't want to engage in a gang bang with you and your horny friends.  (I have no judgments on these activities, but I don't want them for myself at this time).

Talk to me like a person or don't expect a response.  For me, this lifestyle is about exploring my own desires and fulfilling them for others.  Connection is the most important thing for me...so please be able to carry on a conversation about something other than your needs/wants or sex...otherwise I will lose interest.