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Recently moved from OH to SC
Firstly, Im looking for anactualrelationship. So, if youre married, in a relationship or only interested in online role-play Imnotsomeone you should talk to. I also dont want to join a farm, harem, or leather family those situations are far too complicated for me.
Other than that, Im 38 educated witty kind sincere and seek the same. I feel most secure and happy in DD types of relationships and Im very comfortable with the daddy-type.
While I want to live this with him 247 I have to insist that it remain private between us. So, being realistic, it couldnt be anactual247. I just dont want a game or the dynamic to be totally absent because were busy living our lives.
Im looking for someone that has the time, energy and serious intent to grow with me in this kind of relationship. To lead us toward the mutual goal of a ridiculously fulfilling and happy life. I have very few hard limits because I dont believe anyone who is truly submissive, and serving the person they love, should be in the habit of saying no too often. With that said, my few hard limitsaremy limits and I need them to be respected.
Id like to find someone intelligent, kind, funny, reasonably educated, responsible and naturally dominant. Someone who would want to take a reasonable amount of control over my life and our life together. A slight sadist. Someone who doesnt find it a burden to k me every day if thats what I need. Someone who will adore me as much as I adore him. Ive never been married and at some point I will want that.
Lastly, we all make typos. However, if itsreallyobvious you cant controlspell check, Im certain you cant control me either. Capito?
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Since moving to SC, it's been brought to my attention that my religion and/or politics may be somewhat of an issue for some guys in my area. I'm actually a little surprised by this. All these years I've labored under the delusion that people are mostly the same wherever you go - lol - apparently not. I do think, for the most part, stereotypes of "the South" are outdated and untrue ... maybe politics and religion are just so ingrained in our self of self, these ideas take longer to evolve? |
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I read an interesting profile today. A guy, mid-30s, seemingly well-spoken and introspective, went on a "rant" (his word, not mine) about how strong-willed or opinionated subs aren't actually submissive. How it is innately wrong to want to pick and choose who you're submissive with. This is a somewhat common phenomenon, and I find it extraordinarily fascinating.
I suppose the theory behind it is submissives should be submissive to all dominants; period. No questions asked. Right? Well, like Communism, I think that only works in theory, not in actual practice. As dominant men, have you actually taken the time to look at your peers, especially on sites like this? Are they all like you? Are you all so similar you should be regarded exactly the same? Should we see you, a thoughtful, cogent, worldly man no differently than a man who has never spent a single moment ruminating about anything other than the birthdate stamped on his last beer?
Women discerning between men, and vice versa, is the entire basis of natural selection. It's how the weak, sickly, diseased and ill-suited are weeded out. Should we abandon 200,000 years of human instinct because people have found an internet connection and are able to self-label themselves "dominant"? That seems so foolish, so irresponsible, and so self-defeating, I have to wonder what kind of man would even want a woman so myopic?
To me, that's exactly like saying all heterosexuals should be attracted to every person of the opposite sex ... no matter what! Or all homosexuals should be attracted to every person of the same sex ... no matter what! Who lives that way? There simply aren't absolutes like that, no matter how badly you may want them. Further, and lastly, successful relationships take an unimaginable amount of hard work. Choosing a partner that suits your lifestyle, suits you emotionally, physically, and spiritually seems like the much wiser course.
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Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power. -A. Lincoln
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Grammar is the difference between "Feeling you're nuts" and "Feeling your nuts". |
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It's disconcerting to talk with someone new and feel like you're at a job interview. Initial conversations should be fluid and reciprocal. |
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Why do so many people lie about their age on this site? I don't love running around saying I'm 38, but I am, so I do. It really isn't the age that bothers me, or the twenty-year old pictures, it's just the dishonesty. |
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Facebook should let me change my status to: In a relationship with Netflix. |
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I deleted this profile a few months ago; early January I think? After pages of "are you sure you want to delete your profile" and clicking yes, I get a confirmation email saying my profile has successfully been deleted. Great. I haven't gotten any communication emails from CM since.
Over the weekend, my friend tells me that my profile is still here. I really thought he was mistaken, so I logged in this morning to check. Yep, not only did they not delete my profile but I've got 17 pages of unread messages.
So, two things: first, if you wrote me in the last few months I'm sincerely sorry it went unread and ignored; secondly, mine could be an isolated glitch, but I'm really starting to wonder how many of these profiles are actually active, and how many are kept active after the owner deletes them? Maybe that's something to look out for?
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"All men dream, but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds, wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act on their dreams with open eye, to make them possible." T.E. Lawrence
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So I started watching Sons of Anarchy on Netflix; I'm up to season two. I must be very influenced by television because I've started checking out guys wearing kuttes. pffft. |
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I'm pretty sure I was supposed to be a Princess.
No, seriously.
Someone better fix this sh*t. |
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I just received the nicest email from someone who described themselves as: A bi-curious lesbian tran dominant. I have no idea where to begin to peel that onion! |
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Everyone laughs at the hillbilly until the Zombie Apocalypse; food for thought. |
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"You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed" -Antoine de Saint-Exupéry |
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If you write someone and they don't write back, they're not interested. It happens to all of us. None of us are entitled to an explanation. Demanding the reasons, being abusive, angry and insulting is just desperate and insane. Just write someone else and don't sweat it. :) |
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"The major difference between genius and stupidity is that genius has its limits!" -a.Einstein |
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I should just accept that my relationship status on Facebook aspires to no more than, "In a Relationship with Netflix". |
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I'm really starting to believe integrity is dead. |
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"We could learn a lot from crayons... Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull. Some have weird names, and all are different colors, but together they live in the same box." |
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A sucker may be born every minute, but finding a swallower is a little more difficult. |
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Cracker Jack prizes have really gone downhill since I was a kid. |
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Please don't lie about your age. Instead, just tell the person upfront that you're dishonest, untrustworthy and insecure. |
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Just a piece of well-meaning advice if you decide you'd like to write me; firstly, thanks for wanting to write me :) secondly, please bear in mind that I'm not your submissive. I don't know you. I don't respect you. I don't feel submissive to you. PLEASE do not send me an initial email as if all these things are already assumed. I may be submissive, you may be dominant, that means less than nothing to me; It's all about the connection and if we haven't talked at length, we do not have one.
This post will most likely offend 40% of the men on this site. Good. That's 40% less banal emails I've got to suffer though. |
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“Woman is not made to be the admiration of all, but the happiness of one.”
― Edmund Burke
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| Age: 28 |
| Peterburgh,
Florida |
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