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Pansexual Female Mistress, 48,  San Jose, California
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Last Online:


 Dominant Female

 San Jose 


 5' 5"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Male

Sub/Sub Couples

A Poly Household

Somehow I can't log on to My original profile here. Please see pics and text here or On "F3tlife" or "Alt" I am Bella44dd on all 3 sites.   Lifestyle Domme. Many years of experience. Seeking naturally born submissive, devoted, male sub. A bisexual cuckold would be ideal. your experience is not as important as your eagerness to learn and serve. 

So many people mistake kindness and good manners with weakness. That is a very bad mistake in MY case. I can assure you that although I will treat you with kindness and respect as a human being, I am ALWAYS your SUPERIOR. I know My place above you as a DOMME and I will at every level exercise My strength over you. One need not be rude to be strong. Just as one can be strong and submit, One can be Kind and be a Domme.

Here is My fantasy life, that I hope to be living soon. I am married to My kinky little sex whore, because the things I want you to do for Me can only be reached in the deep connection of a loving relationship.

To be My husband you must be a strong Alpha male in the Vanilla world, and a professional who can provide Me with a wonderful lifestyle. We have a bond and connection that most others would never understand, because I own your body, mind, soul, and heart, and you have no secrets from Me. I love the fact that you are an Alpha male in the Vanilla world and My slutty little whore behind closed doors.

It is understood and accepted that while you are earning a living for Me, I need some service and attention at home. I have a sub or subs at home to attend to the boring details of being a Servant/Butler/Secretary.

Those slaves are rarely or never used for sex. Their joy comes from serving Me outside the bedroom. My husband's joy comes from providing Me with a wonderful lifestyle and being My Kinky bisexual cum slut.

All the people in the household serve Me and My needs in very different ways. But it is completely understood that I am The Mistress, to be obeyed, adored, and devotion to My happiness is primary.

Recently I have developed an eagerness to own a couple. Any combination of gender identies is fine  M/M, F/F, M/F. I am very open minded about this. I would love to add a couple who identifies as sub/slave to My household.

Contact Me only if you are attaching a pic, are willing and able to relocate, and are willing to join a Poly household of My choosing.

I have received many emails. Sorry, it is IMPOSSIBLE to respond to all. I will take the time to respond if you meet My requirements.

I was finally able to upload a pic here. But chat rarely works. If you want to know more about Me check out an ALTERNATIVE (hint) profile with the same screen name. I have different pics and more details there. If you want to IMPRESS ME, read both profiles.

If you are a Dom looking to switch, you will be deleted. My requirements are serious and there are, as we all know, plenty of men for Me to choose from. 

If you are local to the SF area AND you meet My prerequisites, you will be at the top of the list.


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Journal Entries:
9/5/2017 6:46:00 PM
I love men, I think all Women should own at least one. Owning a male slave is an act of kindness and charity.

6/25/2014 8:18:27 PM
I am searching for a muscular, masculine man, younger than myself. My ex husband was my cuckold and I would like my next husband to be as well. I am very serious and LTR minded. Marriage can be awesome when you have the "right" partner!!

4/22/2013 8:45:00 PM
Ugh I spent a few years making an Awesome profile in here and Awesome friends all over the world. Would a little tech support be too much to ask? Please read MY original profile here as Bella44DD before you message ME.

1/2/2013 8:36:18 PM
I'm also on the FL site as Bella44dd for some reason they will not let me spell it out.

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