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Attractive ,young looking ,dominant guy turned 50, Co Antrim seeks a submissive Northern Ireland girl for a mutually caring, long term relationship. I am looking for a sub who prefers to have an outwardly vanilla lifestyle but finds the intense eroticism of a Dom/sub sexual relationship deeply fulfilling.
I have no problem getting women for sex /dating etc but find it almost impossible to find a truly submissive girl who wants to be "loved" in the intense way
that this type of relationship only can offer.
The sub girl I am looking for would not be in a relationship. To be honest I need the closeness of being with a sub girl whom I find attractive and who is attracted to me. Mentally as well as physically. I have a friendly chatty personality am down to earth and very "normal" I want to be with a sub girl,who loves affection, holding hands and kissing in public, sharing laughs and spending time with each other. Doing the ordinary things in life together and forming a loving 100% trusting relationship.
If you are a submissive girl who wants to meet a loving Dom you can trust 100% in all aspects of life then please contact me. I will reply to all messages. Please no married or "in a relationship"subs who just want a bit of "kinky" sex on the side.

I'm not into online sex or endless message postings ,texting etc . Leave that to the teenage Bebo brigade lol

I'd prefer to meet somewhere neutral after we got to know each other a wee bit, by a few messages, possibly texts or even speaking on phone.

meeting in a public,neutral environment first time is a must for both of us. There has to be an attraction :- both ways
If not,well at least, we both can walk away.
Ideally we could have a couple of vanilla outings to establish rapport and trust and to see if we are compatable personality wise.

The Dom/sub sexual relationship will simply"flow" if we are suited as above.

I have updated this profile as I hadn't been on this site for a while and to be honest was disappointed with the type of people who contacted me'..... half of whom I reckon were blokes pretending to be females lol and a lot of time wasters.

I'm not here to waste anyone else's time so I would expect the same in return.

Preferably for a long term relationship she should be over 30. I normally find "younger than me " females are attracted to me and vice versa in the vanilla world. Looks wise , I don't have a particular preference so long as I find her attractive. Don't have to have model looks or be a "poser" . Feminine look preferred. Prefer petite to size 16/18 max and someone a few inches shorter than myself ie no 6 foot plussers or very heavy girls. I really do not mean to be disrespectful to larger ladies or very tall ladies but it's my preference:- so sorry, I have no intention to offend.

Hopefully a genuinely compatible sub girl or a genuine girl who may want to explore this side will read this and make contact and we can take it from there.

Thanks for taking the time to read this profile and hopefully you will find what you are after.







guiltyxpleasures
 
 Age: 19
 New york, New York