I've thought my way around what I want to write in this profile for the past couple of days and believe me, it's no simple matter of putting pen to paper, instead it's an outpouring of what I think will make me happiest.

Let me first give you a piece of background about me and this profile. First off, I'm not going to use my real name because, to be honest, to do so in this day and digital age is a little silly and I am far from silly.

I am in my mid-to-late-twenties, rapidly approaching my thirties. I am single at the moment. I am taller than the national average at 5' 10. I am not svelte nor in any way skinny. I'm larger than I would like to be but I doubt that that's uncommon. I have been told that I have fantastic breasts and a nice ass. I can't exactly comment on that but I am proud of them. I have naturally brown hair and grey eyes.

I, at present, have five piercings. Two are standard ear piercings that have been done for over fifteen years. Two are nipple piercings which I got off my own bat and for no purpose other than I thought that they would be interesting. My final piercing is a clit hood piercing which was also done purely for my own enjoyment. At present, the only jewellery in them are barbells, but I intend to change this out for rings once I have the time. All are perfectly healed with no complications and make a difference in sensitivity.

That covers the physical, now for the rest, I suppose. I am a plain-speaking woman who tends towards the 'call a spade a spade' approach. I don't generally lie because I don't believe that any relationship - no matter how temporary - can be built if there is anything less than truth. However, that does not mean that I will always tell the truth. An omission is sometimes as bad. I don't always have the words to explain why something isn't sitting right with me but again, I'm working on it.

I value intelligence, a good conversation and a similar outlook on life. My ideal evening in for a normal relationship would be curled up on the couch, watching something on tv with a beer or a glass of wine and having a chat. Yes, not the most scintillating in the world but can you argue against the simple comfort in that scene?

On the surface when it comes to intimate relations, I am predominately submissive. I want someone else to take charge, and to a certain degree, take what they want. But for everything else, I tend towards a 50/50 relationship. I want someone that I can talk to. I want someone who I can have a conversation with, however, once a scene starts, that's it. I'm on the bottom and that's all there is to it.

Tie this into the previous declaration of a nice night in and you can have endless possibilities. I have had nights in where myself and my partner were just chatting away when out of the blue, I would be ordered to open my blouse and pull my breasts over the cups of my bra while conversation kept going on normally. Another time, I was doing some menial task around the house and he just came up, lifted my skirt up and tucked the hem into the waistband at the front, leaving my front on display. Again, driving home at two am, simply back to my place, being told to open my shirt and display myself. The excitement from simple acts like that can be huge and instantly sets me into a slightly different mindset. I get the ever familiar tingle in my stomach, everything tightens and I start to get wet. Partly it's an element of submission and one of almost humiliation, being on display, existing to turn someone else on. An interesting mindset, all the same.

But don't get me wrong, the only real risk in these scenarios is imagined risk. It's something completely different than standing on the side of a road with your breasts bared where everyone and their dog can see you. When that happens, nerves get the best of me and I can't relax enough to do anything. I need to know that there is an element of safety too.

But that said, it's still one of my fantasies to do something in the middle of the woods, but that's a completely different story.

I guess that I should cover a little on what sort of person I want to attract with this profile now. It might help in the general proceedings. I want someone who would ideally be between 28 and 38. I want someone who is intelligent. I want someone who is strong willed and who can top me. As you can see I'm a little opinionated so you would have to be able to deal with this while not completely stifling it as it is my personality. I need someone who's quite adventurous and doesn't say no to something out of hand but who is able to enter into intellectual discussions on the pro's and con's of one kink over another and be open to at least giving things a shot, and in doing so pushing my boundaries as well.

Above all, I need someone who will respect me as a person. I'm a submissive, this doesn't mean that I am a second rate person just because I choose not to exert my will 100% of the time. I need my safe words to be respected. If this is not you or you just don't agree to the very existence of safewords, then please don't contact me.

If you are going to contact me, please leave a longer message than: "Like your profile, contact me at "

Finally, we get onto the bit of the profile that is perhaps the hardest to write and the bit that may turn several of you off immediately, but please remember that just because something is listed doesn't mean that it has to be part of a scene. I am fully able to discuss what is written below and why exactly I have listed it, what I get out of it and why I would like it considered. I've divided it up into three sections as you will see, feel free to ask me anything about the items below.

Kinks tried and enjoyed:

Sensory Deprivation (Blindfolds, Hoods, Gags)

Bondage (Ropes, Chains, Cuffs; Horizontal, Vertical, Chair; Spreader Bars)

Breast Bondage

Nipple Play (Slight Pain; Weights; Pulling)

Watersports (Internal; External; Watching; Excluding Oral)

Sounds (Urethral; Including Catheterisation)

Anal/Oral/Vaginal Play

Chastity/Orgasm Control

Corsetry

Candles/Wax

Kinks interested in and would like to try (At least once):

Medical Scenes (Including equipment/examination)

Electricity Play (Tens; Probe; Violet Wand)

Enemas

Fisting/Dilation (Including retention of toy)

Nipple Suction (Breast Pump or similar)

Kinks tried and not overly interested in:

Hair pulling

Beating/Whipping/Cropping