Femdom Play

Being comfortable, assuming the dominant role is the key to success in having fun. If you're nervous in the beginning, start slow and relax, have your man pour you a glass of wine and give you a foot massage. Once you're comfortable giving your man orders, they will begin to flow as if you'd been doing it for years.

List of teases:
Tease Your slave to get him to the point where he'll "Do Anything to please You"

• Make him strip naked while You keep Your clothes on.
• Have him address you as 'Goddess'
• Call him by something appropriately demeaning: slut, sissy…
• Have him undress you with his mouth/teeth.
• Have him spread naked in front of You while you read or watch TV, occasionally nudging his balls or penis with Your feet.
• Order him to stay erect.
• Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it when he needs just a little more encouragement, don't let him cum.
• Put on his favorite lingerie and tease him with it.
• Tickle him.
• Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss your nipple…let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg.
• Lightly drape or wrap your panties over his cock. tease him about masturbating with your panties.
• Verbal stimulation is often very effective, tell him things you might do to reward him, tease him with ideas you know he'd enjoy, threaten to humiliate him if he doesn't satisfy you.
• Tie up his balls and cock with a pretty piece of ribbon.
• Masturbate in front of him. 
• Make him wear a cock leash.

List of Humiliations:
Once he'll "do Anything to please You" here's some ideas that will hopefully be entertaining for You.

• Make him wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl, a French maid, a whore, a stripper…
• Give him a fitting girl's name… or just sissy.
• Make him stay naked or dressed in women's clothes and invite your girlfriends over, then have him pamper you all, have him:
  • give foot/back/full body massages
  • bathe you/shave your legs.
  • cook and serve you all a nice dinner.
• Attach a leash to his balls or a cock ring, and lead him around with that.
• Dress him up like the slut that he is, wear a strap-on dildo and make him beg you to fuck him.
• Make him wear Your panties or lingerie under his regular clothes when he goes out or goes to work so that he will think of his Mistress constantly.
• Have him sleep in a pretty nightie.
• Make him masturbate for You.
• If he's really horny and bothering you, you may want to curb his interest by ordering him to jerk off 5 or 6 times in a row. Use it as skin conditioner…3 times on each foot, have him spread it around and lick them clean after each time.
• Make him have sex with a blow up sex doll. Make him lick his 'New Mistress' clean. A male sex doll might be very humiliating
• Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on.
• Leave the curtains open while your french maid dusts.
• Humiliate him in public…take him shopping for panties/lingerie