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Begformylove

Hello and thank you for stopping by.  I'm back after a long absence from this site, and it's good to be back too. 

Regardless of some of the views of others, I know that anything worth having in life is worth working for, and should not be taken for granted.  That's not to say you're wrong or that I'm right, just that we see things differently.  With that said, I'm seeking a long term relationship based on mutual trust and respect.  If you're more of the vanilla type, that's o.k. by me, after all, it's pretty much the world we've all lived in at one time or another. 

I'm looking for that dynamic, that balance between a D/s relationship and vanilla.  In other words, someone who can function in the vanilla world; is employed, maybe even going to school, has a good relationship with her family and friends.  And of course, when we're home alone, she will love me, serve and respect me.  She will seek my hand for guidance, value my wisdom and strive to serve and please me. 

I seek a long term commitment, so someone who is willing to put in the effort and see where things go would be ideal.

I'm not active in the local scene / community.  Personally, I don't think it matters what others think about how I do things.  No offense to those who are active in their communities.  It's just that I don't feel any relationship should be defined by any given "standard".  The way I see it, if it feels right, it is.  That's what matters.  Besides, I believe there is more to a Dom / sub or Master / slave relationship than just barking orders and so on.

If you're interested in meeting me, by all means let me know.  I'm sure we can work something out. 


11/1/2009 7:25:09 PM
I've read some interesting journal entries as of late as well as a few other profiles.  Some of the profiles have been those of Doms / Domme's / Masters as well as subs / slaves. 

Interestingly enough, as a result of having read other profiles and journal entries, I'm intrigued by some living situations.  All this has started me thinking about what I want and what's right for me. 

First off, I know I want and need more experience.  I also know I would benefit from some guidance and / or advice from those with more experience than I have in this lifestyle.  And believe it or not, yes, even an opinion or two from a slave / sub / or pet wouldn't hurt.  Believe what you want and hold to your ideals, but I think even they could shed some valuable insight.  And let's not forget about common sense.  A little goes a long way.

This much I know for certain.  I want a longterm relationship.  As for the particulars, well, I haven't quite figured that out yet.  I think each relationship has its own dynamic, and sometimes the particulars take time to figure out.


10/4/2009 8:26:04 PM
Thank you to those who have contacted me.  However; if you're going to contact me, it would be appreciated to receive more than just a single line, otherwise don't expect a response.  After all, I took the time to write about myself so you could get an idea of who I am and what I'm seeking.  It's only fair, don't you think?
nicolehottie28
 
 Age: 23
 Los angeles, California