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MWulffe

I am a polyamorous bi female dominant with one bi 24/7 male slave who has been mine for a good 10 years now. (I'm also a member of a polyamorous clan, and technically a switch although I'm not currently interested in submitting.) I have been in the lifestyle for about 12 years. For a few of those years I was deeply involved in the managing of a local bdsm community group. (These days I enjoy a much more quiet and un-dramatic life. lol)

I am very serious about the lifestyle and do not dabble lightly here and there, preferring quality over quantity. I keep my boys close to me and perhaps, if they are good, may consider sharing them with a very select few.

If your main interest in bdsm is intercourse, then please do not contact me as this is something I rarely indulge in with a submissive. However, if you fit in well with my household, sexual contacts are not entirely out of the question.

Integrity is highly important to me, yours and mine. I'm least interested in boys that have "ran the circuit" of local Dommes...as I do not find worth in a toy that has been used and cast aside by many others. That in itself will make me question your integrity and sincerity, and I DO have the means to investigate your lifestyle history.

I DO NOT mind it if you have relatively little experience, or none...this is fine. I don't mind teaching. Besides, sometimes it's a lot less work to teach a newbie than it is to break bad habits in one more experienced. ;)

Unlike a lot of Dommes you might have ran into, or are likely to run into, I'm not into bdsm for financial or other material gain. (I'm not looking for a handout, nor will I give any.) I am a woman, afterall...and I will admit like all women, I do enjoy receiving gifts. However it is NOT expected nor required!

I do have tasks around my household that need met, and I will consider your knowledge and ability to contend with these tasks for me. Besides domestic service and handiman skills, I also give consideration to personal service skills. There's not many things I enjoy more than a really good massage. :)


Although some might consider me a kinder, gentler brand of Domme, please do not make the mistake of thinking that I am weak. I'm compassionate, yes...but that does not mean that I am not a strong, assertive woman. I can be quite strict and stern if a situation or particular goal requires it. (And I can be somewhat cruel if provoked.)

I am interested in hearing only from submissives serious about the lifestyle and serious about serving! I am NOT interested in liars, manipulators or whiners. I'm very perceptive, have little patience for such games and this is the fastest way to turn me into a major bitch. (And not in a good, fun way!)

I am most interested in bi males and females but this is not an absolute requirement. I would list more of my interests, etc, but I prefer to discuss the intimate details with potential submissives personally.

Please understand that honesty, sincerity & genuineness are absolute musts! you will come to me with an open heart and a wholly willing body, mind and soul, or do not come at all.

8/20/2007 5:29:49 PM
Well well well, times do change and they certainly have around my household in the past few years! At this time I am interested in locating a local bi female submissive who is interested in submitting to a dominant male/female couple. ;)
4/19/2006 4:10:16 AM
~~~~Currently I am performing professional body waxing (hair removal) out of my home. Males are welcome and I'm experienced at waxing all areas of the body that can be safely waxed. Please visit takeoff . to / waxing (take out the spaces) for more information, pricing and service menu. Serious inquiries only, please - and remember....this is a professional service I provide and has nothing to do with my lifestyle or sex. Please don't insult me by requesting or suggesting anything remotely sexual or bdsm oriented in regards to my body waxing services. Thank you.~~~~
3/20/2006 2:14:48 PM
A person who must loudly and obnoxiously proclaim themselves dominant....has just irrevocably proven themselves not.
10/9/2005 5:34:37 AM
a necessary repost - Let me be a little more specific about what I'm NOT looking for: I'm not all that interested in anyone out of state. That's great if you're relocatable but I'd prefer not to have that kind of obligation hanging over my head if it doesn't work out with us. I'm not all that interested in sissy subs or forced femme. I might dabble a little in cross dressing for humilations sake but that's it. I'm not interested in those who can't take the time to tell me a little about themselves. These usually won't even get a reply from me. If you would like to get my attention...try to stand out from the crowd some how. :) Be creative and interesting!
10/3/2005 1:14:13 AM
while cruising around on here it just suddenly ocurred to me how the true point of a bdsm relationship has been lost upon the majority of the "community" these days. So many people out there playing around with each other, looking for people to play with, and having no idea whatsoever of the real essence of power exchange relationships nor what true service entails. The main focus seems to be on sexual gratification and exploration, NOT true service.

It's extremely difficult to find submissives these days who truly desire to serve for service's sake, submissives who take pride in all of the little things they can do to make a Dominant/Owner happy and more comfortable, who take pride in a job well done, no matter how small, non-sexual, dirty or menial it may be!


Now I'm not saying that I believe that bdsm shouldn't include sex. Just that it should not be the focus or the reason behind entering a bdsm relationship. Or perhaps that's what the word "play" means these days and I'm not looking for play. I'm looking for something a great deal deeper and more meaningful, something intense and breathtaking, something damn near indescribable. I want true servitude.


So submissives, my best advice is that you put down the fetish mags and get a copy of one of the Marketplace books and dive in. This will quickly give you an idea about what it truly means to serve, what the proper mindset should be and why you should strive to provide service you can be downright proud of. True service, REAL service. Not kinky sexual exploration and "play".
9/28/2005 11:29:49 PM
Currently in need of boys for the following: general housework, household repair, massages, yard work. (If I think of anything else, I'll add it later.) There's a reason I'm seeking these specific things and I'll discuss that with those interested in the positions when they contact me.
8/18/2005 1:09:16 PM
Let me be a little more specific about what I'm NOT looking for:

I'm not all that interested in anyone out of state. That's great if you're relocatable but I'd prefer not to have that kind of obligation hanging over my head if it doesn't work out with us.

I'm not all that interested in sissy subs or forced femme. I might dabble a little in cross dressing for humilations sake but that's it.

I'm not interested in those who can't take the time to tell me a little about themselves. These usually won't even get a reply from me. If you would like to get my attention...try to stand out from the crowd some how. :) Be creative and interesting!