Ultimately, I seek my soulmate, but a significant friend or other will do fine to start.

I am so certain I'm the Dominant you are looking for...............

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If however, after 30 days you find that you are now an obedient submissive slut who loves to be put on a leash and "do everything she is told to do", then you will have no choice but to become his sexual slave and then because your a slave you have to do anything your told to please him. But how would you please him? and What gets you all tingly? Thats what emails and drinks are for, no?
"Daddy" already has you on a leash, so you seem to turn each other on pretty good.
This is what seperates the "significant other" from the "soulmate".
You have to be sure what gets him excited , also gets you excited. (at least enough of those other "things")
Well, first, he needs to understand exactly what kind of slut you are - what are the other things that makes you "tingle"? It gets him excited to put you on a leash and and make you "do what your told". Isn't that the way it's supposed to be?
It could be alot of things, or it could be just a few things. Your new master knows and can do lots of things.
Like pain and humiliation - but how hard and what? Thats the fun part, finding out...
And there could be things you are only "interested" in. (There are no "dealbreakers" really, except kids and dooty)

Normal Things Like: Rope play, spanking, whipping, caning(my favorite) a leather strap
Verbal (whore, bitch, slut) Teasing, Flirting
Sexy Outfits, leather, school girl, shrinkwrap
Clothsepins, Tit clamps, Electro(interested)
Exhibishionism, Fucking(of course) sucking, fist fucking, blindfolds, gagging, sensory deprivation, pee play(interested) 3Somes, Gangbang, Sex in front of other people
(Just say it -Beetlejuice 3X)
And then - It's SHOWTIME!