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seems that CM has desided to let me chat for a bit
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those fuck chatservers wont let me connect again.
i m not sure if its the linux OS i use or something else - any ideas y the chats dont work for me? neither chatrooms nore videochat nore the xirc client wont load for me |
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wow..took me quite some time to be able to log on the chatroom again....but ya know what? i am back - even tho mirc wont work for me at all..and i got no clue why....oh well.
come to subs_and_dommes the room is back rocking with all the nice and all the annoying lil bugs chatrooms offer :) |
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pissy pissy pissy....with the *new* service...mumbles
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it has been a week that i cant log in..im gettin really pissy by now...
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subs_and_dommes ...seems they reset the irc-light again
pls register ur nickname in the first window when u log into chatrooms
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/register yourpassword youremail |
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subs_and_dommes ...seems they reset the irc-light again
pls register ur nickname in the first window when u log into chatrooms
with
/register yourpassword youremail |
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subs_and_dommes invites you to try out a new chatfeeling - no ops, no voice, just selfregulation via ignore - see if this is the freedom you look for
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so..there is this spammer ...that annoys the channel..and everyone complains how disturbed and irritating he is - he wants power - and he tries to get it by blackmailing - yeah online u can do that
same way as online u can blackmail roomowners into accepting or not accepting ppl - since there will always be someone that will not be at ones like - as soon as there is more then 10 ppl in - and to push ppl out just couse u dont like them sounds a bit bigot to me. i need at least a good reason to do something like that - like manipulating, lying, cussing or backstab me - then ..and only then i m willing to have ppl removed from my immediate radius |
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another row of spam and flood attacks on collarme - hurray...
we r halfwhat stable on subs_and_dommes
DO NOT forget to registrate ur nick when u log in via the collarmepage pls :) |
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reading some of the profils makes me really wonder bout male sexality : are u really willing to let go of common sense and brain for a quick yerk?
i mean come on....regular chicks that offer phone email or online blackmail??? is there really enough males that dig it?
its hard to imagin that there is enough dicks willing to pay for it.....and then think that a dominant woman will be interessted in their sexual fantasies!
boys its the other way round..only if u manage to make a woman happy she will make u happy....if she isnt ..her oven stays cold and u will have to pay for crappy telefonservice of some fake digger |
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My soul is mating lazy
In the house of solitude
Forced by love I free forever
From the storm in space of time
My soul is mating lazy
Gifts him with this point of time
His hands that slowly caress
And abduct me from this dream
My soul is mating lazy
I have seen the tunnels light
Suns that haven´t shone forever
Onto planets that don’t exist
My soul is mating lazy
Bears esperance one more child
Will be raised in ever darkness
Being kept for what will be
My soul is mating lazy
For aeons proper child
Till it raises from the darkness
Guarding souls for a while
(original german)
Meine Seele paart sich träge
Hier im Haus der Einsamkeit
Kraft der Liebe flieh ich ewig
Vor dem Sturm in Raum und Zeit
Meine Seele paart sich träge
Schenkt ihm einen Augenblick
Hände die mich langsam streicheln
Und entführen aus diesem Traum
Meine Seele paart sich träge
Hat des Tunnels Licht gesehn´
Sonnen die schon lang nicht schienen
Auf Planeten die nicht sind
Meine Seele paart sich träge
Gebiert der Hoffnung doch ein Kind
Wird im Dunklen aufgezogen
Für sein Schicksal aufgehoben
Meine Seele paarte sich träge
Für der Ewigkeiten Kind
Bis es aufsteigen aus der Nacht
Über alle Seelen wacht.
BQ |
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Quiero decirte que te quiero,
hasta en el cielo te espero,
hasta que el orgullo en tus ojos dejaras,
quiero decirte que te extraño,
por ese camino mas largo,
que un rio se lleno´con mis lagrimas.
Quiero pedirte que me perdones
si es que te dolio´mi partir |
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ZEIT DER WÖLFE
Und die Moral von der Geschichte,
Mädchen weich vom Wege nicht,
bleib allein und halt nicht an, traue keinem fremden Mann.
Geh nie bis zum bittren Ende, gib dich nicht in fremde Hände.
Deine Unschuld zieht sie an, und ein Wolf ist jeder Fremde.
Merk dir eins
in der Nacht ist schon mancher Wolf erwacht,
hat der Unschuld Schmerz gebracht,
weine um sie keine Träne, Wölfe haben scharfe Zähne.
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the new year is 2 weeks old....time flies by - have u found what u looked for in the new year?
if not : go have a bath, then a hairtrim, waxing and some cosmetics, get new clothes, lift ur head up and FEEL like the new adventerous person FIRST, and then try to interesst anyone else in you.
perfect recipt to start something new is to start with urself. dont whine bout things...DO THEM
http://www.collarme.com/personals/r/subs_and_dommes/chat.htm |
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we made it...its 2010...wow....nice number nay? i spent the new years eve with kinksters in a dungeon.....with food and drinks and chitchat (laughs....and an ocational play in between)
very entertaining.....bit sexy.....very tiresom....
i wish everyone a good start into the new year and keep the kink up...same sexual rights for alternative sexuality
find us in roomlist under
subs_and_dommes or you use the direct link for java
http://www.collarme.com/personals/r/subs_and_dommes/chat.htm
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NEW NEW NEW!!!!!!
join us in a new room, subs and dommes, for chitchat, fun, questions and more.
you either find us in roomlist under
subs_and_dommes or you use the direct link for java
http://www.collarme.com/personals/r/subs_and_dommes/chat.htm
I am trying to make a diffrence - not a bottom down approach - but an "together" - for the full endearing of all colors shapes variations and believes.
see you there soon :)
long live diversity |
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a few things to remember for the slaves : they r not very smart to do to ur dominant:
Pushing limits does not mean making the 'Dominant so angry the vein above their right eye throbs.
"Quit it!" "Ow, damnit!" "I'm hiding that toy when you go to work tomorrow" and cursing a blue streak are not safe words.
"Oh my god, where did you get those, they are gorgeous!!!" is not considered boot-worship.
"Ya want fries with that?", "Want me to drink it for you too?" are not appropriate remarks when Domme gives you an elaborate drink order.
Flipping your dominant off while your hands are cuffed behind your back is a bad idea. Owners have ways of knowing these things.
Putting lube, goop, Superglue, ink or any other substance that will sully the hands of Domme on his toys while setting up for a session is not a good idea.
Kicking that toy you hate far under the bed is futile. Domme will only secure your wristcuffs to your anklecuffs and make you crawl for it...repeatedly.
"Bite me" is never an intelligent response to a command.
Doing your Beavis and Butthead imitation of "Fire, fire, fire, fire!" during Domme's lecture on fireplay safety is considered rude.
Responding with "Yes, All Wise, All Knowing Grand Imperial Weenie" is not appropriate when Domme asks you if you are comfortable during a bondage scene.
Asking to go to the bathroom every five minutes while Domme practices her Japanese rope work on you will try his patience, quickly.
Crossing your eyes and sticking your tongue out while your dominant is discussing your punishment is not wise.
There is no such thing as slave immunity, free slave day, or the pms defense. The slave jury might not convict you, but the Dom judge will override the verdict. Count on it.
Pretending Domme's collection of buttplugs are toys and singing the "Weebles wobble but they won't fall down" song is not a good idea.
Repeatedly blowing out each candle Domme lights during wax play will get you punished.
Checking Domme's head for the 666 symbol after a harsh punishment will only get you more of the same, or worse.
"I know you are but what am I?" is not the appropriate response when called a raunchy little whore during humiliation play.
Using the spreader bars, paddles or canes for the fireplace is not a good plan.
"Missed me, missed me, now ya gotta kiss me" is an unacceptable remark when Domme's flogger slips.
When Domme pulls out his bullwhip and says she wants to play, she doesn't mean hide-and-seek...she will find you eventually.
Calling Merry Maids when you are ordered to spruce the place up is not what your dominant had in mind.
"Faster, faster, we need a new Domme" is NOT the song to sing during a session.
"Oh, and you think I am?" is an unacceptable response to hearing your dominant say she is not pleased.
During a play party is not the time to do your hilarious imitation of Igor and hunch over,moaning "Yes, Marster" when ordered to fetch something.
Adding "Madam" or "Mistress" to "Fuck that plan!" will not save you.
Singing the chorus of "Anything You Can Do, I Can Do Better" under your breath during a session is considered foolhardy.
Arguing whether "Domme might not be right, but Domme is never wrong" is Zen or Buddhist philosophy will only get you rewarded with kneeling in the corner on a bed of Legos "to help you consider the question in quiet contemplation."
Reciting nursery rhymes during an interrogation scene to crack your Owner up only lasts for so long. Then you will pay BIG.
Asking "Is that as HARD as you can hit??" is considered a cry for help amongst submissive suicide prevention workers.
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NEW NEW NEW!!!!!!
join me in a new room, subs and dommes, for chitchat, fun, questions and more.
you either find us in roomlist under
subs_and_dommes or you use the direct link for java
http://www.collarme.com/personals/r/subs_and_dommes/chat.htm
roomrules are : dont attack anyone in room for his name, age, gender or orientation, everyone is welcome especially if they use common sense and a lil politeness in conversation. Questions are answered, infos as far as known are given, toll around with the subs and dommes have fun and pass a good time without military policing. every topic goes, every orientation has its valid, whatever gender you possess.
kick and ban are only used in extreme situations where warnings didnt work anymore. other then that there is a wonderful ignore button to make everyones life easy.
i choose to make a new room couse some of the politics in a big room are totally against my beliefs.
I am trying to make a diffrence - not a bottom down approach - but an "together" - for the full endearing of all colors shapes variations and believes.
see you there soon :)
long live diversity |
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one fuckin full fetish party for a change in vienna - tho a lil too few swingers there mixed into the fetish folks....not quite my interesst to see ppl fuck like rabbits
other then that....i had fun...
i wonder how many of those that write me would actually really travel for a meeting - anyone closer then 90 min flight would be neat :p |
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another neat fetish party..on a ship......hell my feet hurt from the high boots..hhehe...but on the last picture u can say the look was worth the pain :)
btw submissives....if in usa ..half the dominants been *into the lifestyle* 20 years ago.....where they fuck have they been before the chatrooms opend? i sure as hell dont remember that many communities that were realtime back then :p |
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had a nice play weekend :) old friend invited me to a play for her birthday....neat lil dungeon almost outside of vienna - amazingly well stocked.
and sunday i went out for dinner to a mexican style estancia - met a nilla lover from ages ago....dam he is still cute as hell..lol and still scared as hell from me too imagin he called me *rough* |
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mhm...occatinal play here and there - do i really want another SAM in my life..i think random play is plenty.....
they all seem to think couse i am a dominant i am also aloneentertainer when they r bored..and will spend every min of the day with them. |
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watering down the definitions of terms used in BDSM is not really helping to understand each other.
so before u fight over a discussion, look up a valid definition (make sure u dont get stuck ont he really crappy webpages with tons of bullshit on - remember bdsm is not a science and there is more then one understanding) and make sure ur on the same "page" before fighting. |
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I had a very relaxing weekend in OWK (czech) this weekend. its always so exciting to chitchat with mistresses from all over the world, see new toys and eventually learn one or two new tricks :)
wich brings me to the other problem - DONT FUCKING WHINE U CAN NOT FIND ANYONE IF U DONT GET UR ASS OUT OF THE CHAIR. |
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lecture of the day: ONLINE STUPID
there is not anything like a TRUE slave or dom/me.
They either will fit for your likes or not - if they r not into the same things as u, does not make them fake.
expecting TRUE OBEDIENCE and UNQUESTIONED following is absolut silly, idiotic and shows lack of understanding. most likly writing this in your profil proves that u have NO fuckin clue what bdsm can mean. nobody follows an online muppet unquestioned..and if they do they r most likely not worth to have. |
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dam i still didnt get any tlc.....wtf is wrong with males? all to scared to come volunteerly into the net of the spider....i mean comb of the bee?
hehe...that means translated....i still havent managed to find a new boytoy.....lets see if i get lucky in august |
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whooo..ok i picked myself up, and dragged my ass tot he pride parade in vienna. have to say it was quite fun - went there in a nightmare of green latex dress...hehehe..but geesh...at least ppl SAW me. i still feel bad bout failing classes...some tlc would be nice. |
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and fknshit...i failed the statistics exam....life sux
today is the biggest (gay) streetparade....and i feel absolut shit.....not sure if i even wanna go there |
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still with my head deep in my books..not that it helps any...i ll never make a good statistic person sigh.
other thing....much more important -
i need a toyboy - best within 2 hrs travel from Vienna - and even better with 7inch +
any applicants? |
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i neeed heeeeeeeeeelp...lol...factor analyse of a social survey....gawd how i hate this finals...lol
dont count me in chat much this next 2 weeks..i ll be busy diggin my nose into books... |
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the weekend was not really spent in a bdsm-related manner....but hell i am tired....and dam....i got bruised!!
hehe...dam longbow
i went to a medilockenhaus) whole weekend sunny and nice, and all the dressed up ppl...soooooo nice |
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dam...i almost managed to forget about it - june is exams month!!! doh doh doh that means i will have to sit down somewhen and try to study some more |
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next day is not half as bad as i expected..lol...tho...i could party every day ...ponders.....well maybe not everyday *chuckle* |
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birthday....doh....anohter year passed by...did i really think i had time? lol
im stuffed like xmas turkey, a lil tipsy and full of shaded thoughts....need more party i guess :) |
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another word about pictures kiddos : just for the fact u think the picture is hot, doesnt mean the picture actually pictures reality, or the real holder of the profil - nore does it mean if u get horny by looking at the picture that the person is *right* for you (that goes for dom/me and f/m subs the same) |
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freinds are such a precious thing
and as good as it feels to have friends - as bad it is if u find out they were just acting as ur friend for certain reasons (their benefit) |
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kiddos...just a word about pictures: if u dont have a shot of urself that doesnt involve ur ex lover/wife/drunkfriend - ask a stranger on the street to take a pic of u in normal clothing with ur mobil cam and load that up. these fotos with half cutted out ex lovers/friends or naked pics in the bathroom mirror.....do leave a really bad impression. |
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how dare ppl to use the word *true* when half the things they say are a lie as soon as they start making their profils. |
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stupid weather always messing with plans, no open air festival *pouts*
news on bdsm front: i so dont feel like seeing anyone rl at the moment....its like i dont even wanna think about any relation |
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looks like i am back on the market ..doh....oh well....comes time come a new toyboy...untill then i ll enjoy my free time |
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almost may...the best open air concert of the year is ahead (1st may) hehehe...gatta love it...what i dont love is i ll have to go alone *pouts* |
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do u believe how fast time passes when ur busy living? im having a tough economic time, but the emotional time is good.
hope nobody found damaged eggs on easter :) |
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happy birthday my bunnyboy :) ur a full grown man now - wanna act like one? grin* kiss* |
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after a 5 years break from organizing..the first org. party was good...might even do another in a few month..see if we can top the first one :)
but hell i wish someone had told me how much feet can hurt after 12 hrs in 7inch heel boots....a week later my feet r still pissed at me *tries to find the bunnyslippers for comfort* |
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what do i like about beeing a dominant in BDSM? i guess that question is more of a rethoric...since i couldnt imagin it beeing any diffrent. i cant even remember how my last nilla relation was like eheheh |
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im not sure what is the worse chat peeve for me - attentionseekers or the complainers.
sometimes i have the feeling some ppl wait for someone they can jump at and have kicked from channel - usually for not really a reason.
anyways both i rather need - NOT
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life is floating so fast, and hardly anytime we realize that our time alive is limited.
yet living every day on its max seems a legend - u cant live on full speed every day.
one needs rest and retreat from the fast world once in a while - and its ok to slack off one or the other day - IF u dont forget what ur aiming for |
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has been a first - i celebrated v -day..lol...and i had fun :)
my slave was wrapped in his segofix restrictive bed fixation system, he definatly had fun there....while i entertained myself with my sub....roar....too bad that so seldom there is a chance to really go with the moods :P
happy v-day |
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what do u think about this endless chat braggin of what not?
i mean having fun is ok, goofing off in chat most of the time is ok too i guess
but what drives me nuts is selfmade experts..that have most of what they talk about known from hearsay or webpages..and then act on it like they invented bdsm all over again.
get real ppl...bdsm is just a word for a sum of actions and plays that wrap around sexuality...no need to go into lalaland fantasies :) |
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wow...end of jan almost here, who would ve thought :) time could slow down occationally...i got so many things to do...and so few time.
anyone ever felt there is to bee too much bdsm in ur life? chuckle..my nilla hobbies suffer a bit and i need new outfits badly ....especially office ones (not to mention latex ones) |
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i kinda notice i miss my bunny...really do...even tho he has a talent to drive me up the wall.
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yule is over, i had some relaxing days even tho i had to do the dinner for part of the family....so i ll enjoy the rest of the week, and hopefully look forward to a good start into 2009 - best wishes to all |
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its yule? time passed by so fast i hardly realized.
i learned one or the other thing this past december...life is weird
im so lookin forward to see my bunny again...on 3rd jan.....i ll dig my teeth in like a starving wolf :) |
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and unfortunatly there is always bad news too, shortly after my dad having in a lunginfarct.....my grandma is dying...so close around samhain....may her way over the fence be painless |
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i think i can say that we renewed the collar with my lil bunny! |
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ever wondered y so many ppl in chatrooms lie and backstab?
the answer is easy: couse they can!
there is no punishment online for backstabbers, liers, posers and manipulators!
they get away with pretty much everything - couse there is no higher moral that can prevent these behaviors -
doesnt make these behaviors any nicer ...nay? |
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backstabbing and breaking ones trust is passoftime #1 in chatrooms
it really hurts to be betrayed by someone i have backed up for a cpl of YEARS - and be treated by that person like just a sidenote...not even worse to be talked to before taking step
ohhh.... hypocrit and stupid -thank you - oh and a sidenote... beware from bitchy submissives |
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omg...october already...time flies.....its cold and grey and wet....and im busy with not enough income.....grumbles.....i hate to see the sun leave till next year..sob |
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september brings late sun...really nice outside so far, and i realized a few projects :). im still searching a new boytoy (dont bother to email me if ur older then 30 or not within 2 hrs traveldistance from vienna) |
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summer is basically over (especially when i look at the weather) and there is a few desicions to make.
seems i ll legalize my ownership over my long term live in, and i seek a new toyboy. |
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bees_boy was with me 2 weeks, and apart of the usual lil trouble about teaching a boy not to be a messy bug, i loved every min.
i wish i could ve had him help a bit more with ordenating stuff, but oh well.
i hope he soon comes again :) |
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hi ppl, check out my art page : www.beequeensart.com
see if u like it, feedback is welcome |
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omg, i really thought i d not manage it.
its done - the old hive is abandoned - all moved to the new flat.
was about time, all april i was renovating moving boxes and trying to get anything done.
sigh. new hive is soooo much smaller sobs |
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hurray..classes started back
and i dont know where to start after slacking
last friday my paintings were displayed in the bdsm bar in vienna....have to say the opening was pretty full....tho i still felt a bit sick from last week
this week its basically work, study, exams
not exactly my favorite *winks* |
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the new year party in swiss was great, had a lot of fun...and my bullwhip got to bite into flesh...how very pleased i was!
well but the idea to walk out at midnight for the firework in nothing much but my furcoat...was a lil too optimistic .......and yeah...i got sick
so i spent all last week in bed with an infection...
im gettin better and will bee back too soon *wink* |
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another yule passed by....a quiet and peaceful one for a change tho.
i even enjoyed to do the *cooking* for 10 ppl...was a darn nice dinner
lets see what the new year brings :) ..i ll spend newyear in swiss on a privat sm party, that will bee fun i guess....
but more then that i am looking forward to feb *smiles* |
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the bookpresentation yesterday was a full success, over 130 ppl came to hear short parts of the 3rd book with bdsm erotic stories. we had a lil bdsm party after the presentation, and some of the artwork that was shown for the bookpresentation will stay as exposition for the rest of the month :) |
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Show me who you call friends, and I will show you your future |
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an entire day of classes ahead..once again....thursday not really my favorite...doh
well i got a latex group meeting to look forward to tonight...just not sure if i wont sleep through..hehehe
and tomorrow i got another book presentation (bdsm stories) where i m gona read a bit out of it...followed by a playparty....should bee a fun friday :) |
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1. Men are like ..Laxatives ...... They irritate the crap out of you.
2. Men are like.Bananas . The older they get, the less firm they are.
3. Men are like Weather . Nothing can be done to change them.
4. Men are like ....Blenders You need One, but you're not quite sure why.
5. Men are like ....Chocolate Bars . Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.
6. Men are like ....Commercials ?....... You can't believe a word they say.
7. Men are like Department Stores . Their clothes are always 1/2 off!
8. Men are like ......Government Bonds ?.... They take soooooooo long to mature.
9. Men are like .....Mascara . They usually run at the first sign of emotion.
10. Men are like Popcorn .... They satisfy you, but only for a little while.
11. Men are like Snowstorms . You never know when they're coming, how many inches you'll get or how long it will last.
12. Men are like .......Lava Lamps .. Fun to look at, but not very bright.
13. Men are like Parking Spots All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped.
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lots of things goin on....and some serious changes too
now i should get ready for the monthly fetish party i think....what to wear....doh...i dont have any new clothes :p
BTW....im STILL looking for one or two slaves that want to go with ME to the OWK (europeans prefered)...where are the eager and caneloving slaves that dare to explore beyond fantasie? |
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weee..another weekend i spent home couse i had to work...grins
ok....17.nov i got a show with bookreading and my paintings..with a party afterwards...and all january i ll have an expostion of my paintings :) |
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yep we r moving..the hive is beeing reduced and moved to the outside of the city - i ll have a lil garden :) |
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bah..i missed 2 weekends of party....how am i supposed to find a new slave if i cant go out |
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I'm a bitch!
When I stand up for myself and my beliefs,
they call me a bitch.
When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch.
When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts,
or do things my own way, they call me a bitch.
Being a bitch entails raising my children to be strong people who have a solid sense of personal and social responsibility, who are
not afraid to stand up for what they believe in and who love andn respect themselves for the beautiful beings they are.
Being a bitch means that I am free to be the wonderful creature that am, with all my own intricacies, contradictions, quirks and beauty.
Being a bitch means I won't compromise what's in my heart. It means I live my life MY way.
It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.
When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak up against it, I am defined as a bitch.
The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.
I am proud to be a bitch! It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be.
I am outspoken, opinionated, and determined. By God, I want what I want, and there is nothing wrong with that!
So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You won't succeed.
And if that makes me a bitch, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.
I love this, I can call myself a bitch now and not feel bad about it
Send this to all the bitches you know!!!
--author unknown
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another one hit the dust...not gona bother with inmature acting and talking back when the clear basic rules are * i tell you what you do* not tolerating ppl that turn their back on me in middle argument couse they never learned how to confront themself with trouble |
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EUROPEANS - wanna meet others that live in europe?
why dont u visit me in European_bdsm and lets talk about the fun we have with bdsm inside europe
meet and greet and funchat |
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weekend was a lil long..with way too few sleep...im still a bit tired and slightly unhappy about goin to work....sigh
oh well..was way worth it :)
and my puppy is goin to come to visit me for a week.....gona have to come up with a plan for the week
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went out with 2 gay americans..showing them the secret corners of vienna
dinner drinks and a lil sightseeing - i had so much fun...wish i could visit them in georgia |
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back from a 2 weeks vacation in liguria (italy) with 4 boys. the house was great, the beach nice, the sightseeings amazing - i really enjoyed it. apart of a few minor troubles the boys also beehaved great and tried to make my vacation enjoyable.
wish i could ve stayed longer tho..sigh |
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11th anniversery in OWK...and i went with pony_BQ
i think he will need a few days to think over all the events that stormed him those 4 days :)
i also had bday there, celebrated with a cpl of other dommes from all over the world - thats what life is about
there was ponyboy races where pony_BQ was supposed to participate - but he totally fucked up in the first try - grins - what a good reason to bee really mean
he kinda made up in the *best slave contest* where he made 2nd spot - takin a freakin lot of caning - plus i was very satisfied with him packing and unpacking - and most of his service
so all in all ....my birthday weekend ROCKED |
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well....good things and bad things ....but they all make life so exciting :)
my lil fun weekend in owk got cancelled, but pony is here, made himself usefull...and we will visit the latex studio (tailoring) and saturday we will go to a privat bdsm party (rubs hands i got some harsh surprise for pony)
but another thing happen wich is rather good ;) imagin i was invited to an art exposition !!!! im thrilled...lil old me gona expose her wax arts :)))) in august in one of the wonderful old castles in vienna!!! isnt that cool? |
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check out my communities....ask me for the links ( 7just7.com/BienenKoenigin)
and if ur at it search in google for terrorstorm avi ..and find out how the world really is run
inform urself on the laws against vilent porn (that includes bdsm) there is plenty of info to bee found online |
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there will bee laws agains vilolent porn - yes those will include bdsm - and yes YOU can stop that...sign petitions, inform urself upon laws against violent sex pages *i can not post the link but google " violent porn law" sign against the law!!!!!! |
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BDSM Relationship
vs.
Abusive Relationship
Both a Dominant and an abuser seek to have control.
The Dominant accepts what is given freely and cares for what is given.
The abuser takes the control and destroys.
The abuser manipulates with deception and/or intimidation.
A BDSM relationship has many similarities to an abusive relationship.
Some of the words used in describing abuse are the same terms we use within BDSM.
The difference is that the abuser uses control to destroy the self esteem and happiness of his/her partner.
I have seen too many comments of the female being overly emotional. Reality: abuse does take place within our communities.
Abuse is more difficult to distinguish in the lifestyle.
We are not as quick to judge, because of the similarities.
Abuse is less likely to be reported, because of fear of BDSM interests becoming public.
Due to these circumstances, an abuser is able to find shelter within the community.
Speaking from a submissive's view:
Are you afraid of your partner? Not afraid of disappointing or displeasing, but physically afraid of his/her anger?
Does your partner try to destroy outside healthy relationships? i.e. family, children, friends
Does your partner threaten, strike or sexually assault you in anger?
Does your partner invalidate your feelings?
Do you have the right to speak and express feelings, even the negative without fear of retaliation, physical or mental?
Does your partner accept responsibility for his/her own actions? Does s/he blame you or others?
Is your partner in control of his/her emotions? Does s/he take a moment to calm down when very angry?
Does your partner lie to you about different things? This is one sometimes we know the truth inside ourselves and we do not want to admit it.
Have you noticed negative changes within yourself, emotionally or physically?
Do you find yourself withholding information from your partner, because of fear of their reaction?
Do you lie to others or leave pertinent information out to protect the abuser?
Do you feel despair, fear, anger, depressed or suicidal?
If you are in an abusive relationship, make plans to leave. Abusive hotlines are found in the front of the phone book. Each county or providence has its own state run mental health center. The sheriff's department have resources available. These numbers are listed in the front or government section of the phone book.
A D/s relationship is based on honesty, communication, trust, caring and love that goes deeper than many can ever imagine or attain. It takes the work of both or all partners. Any long term relationship does take work.
A submissive can be the abuser. Abuse takes place in same sex and poly relationships.
ABUSE
to gain control by deception, manipulation and/or intimidation |
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hi everyone, due to the time im spending with answering mails here, i think its time to make a lil notice here. IF u feel like sending me a mail here, add a picture or i WONT answer. If ur mail is just a oneliner i WILL not answer. to all others, thx for the mails |
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i found one room (subs_seeking_Dommes) that i enjoy very much....a lot of nice ppl usually in there, and always nice chats .
really enjoy it |
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after a while on here, i found some nice chats, and for the rest we ll see. generally here is same as in all bdsm chats, a handfull of ppl that r full of themselfes run the chats, and everyone that doesnt fit in their picture is gettin bashed...laughs...as if i didnt knew it. i m still with both feet on the ground..happy 2006 |
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ack..ok...i take my interessts out....couse...sorry guyz....just couse u like what i have checked - still doesnt mean ur the right guy for me.pls...im dominant, but that doesnt mean just couse ur sub/slave u will bee the right guy for me .....i m taken |
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i wish i had more time to chat, on the other hand i m glad i dont *laughs* too many ppl uptight and big about themselfes.
i enjoy to chat with the few ppl i found worth a chat so far. thx :) |
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first days was tireing to wait for my profil to bee allowed, but now i already talked to a few nice ppl.
even tho that im not all happy about the lots of gor that claim to bee Ds, but i guess u always have some peeves.
i really enjoy some of (my early morning) chats and think there might bee a few ppl that i really would like to know better
and i forgot to mention that im not looking for anything |
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STAY AWAY FROM ME
