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Hello,

You know while I am open minded, I realized what it is I really want...dont hate me for it.

I want a vanilla relationship with a woman who spankS!!!
If we meet, date, go steady, live together, marry, I want you to have the right to spank me from the moment we meet and all the time we know each other.

I will never have any say about it. Once you decide that I am to be spanked, I have to submit to it and allow you to administer what you decide. Submit means let you take me into private, bare me, bind me, and spank me the way you decide.

You will decide all aspects anytime you spank me. You would decide the tempo, the rate or time between smacks. You would decide the intensity, or how hard you will strike my flesh, and of course the most important, you decide how long it lasts. So each time you decide to spank me, I would never know what the tempo, intensity and the duration, until it is over. And which mixing it up, it would never be the same twice. Especially when you also decide what you will spank me with, be it your bare hand, your leather belt, a strap, a crop, a rod, a cane, a whip....because you have this strong maternal disciplinarian instinct in you, you find this ideal.

I want a romantic partner, just to be able to put me into the same position my mother did when I messed up, were mouthy, disobedient, and otherwise needed to be taught some lesson or more...and I want you to use it exactly like a mother would, only to make me a better partner. One thing I noticed....when an adult women gives you a real spanking and puts you back in time, it has the same effect...and then you start thinking about your behaviors and actions in terms of would that get me spanked? So over time spanking can change your behaviors and how you act.

So I want to start sharing life with a woman that is right into that a vanilla relationship with the right to spank as she sees fit. I would prefer a woman that fits the punishment to the crime.

Now I understand if you have this right over me you are in a position that you could agree and then over time change the nature of the relationship completely....but these are the risks you take when submissive and allowing someone to have rights over you in certain ways.

Now this will not appeal to a lot of people, however female Dommes and switches would likely be best, however a sub with a paddle is the same to me...if you are willing to use it. And there is no point unless you plan to make spanking a part of real life, You are the consequence giver, and you will educate me on how to avoid that type of consequence...and of course the best time to share you mind is while you are administering the spanking.

I tend to seek women who are age inappropriate, so if you think I have been inappropriate and would like to give me a spanking, and are local, I will let you in fairness. But I guess 40 up should be okay, though I dont usually go for older women or women I cannot put my arms around. I do not have a picture up, but if you are seriously interested, I will share one. I am open to all races, however most comfortable with my own.

Should you read my profile and have interest and are not local, I will not relocate anybody, but if we talk, get along, then I can always put you up for a night or two, or a week, or a month or maybe you never leave? I am not going to limit myself to non-local potentials

If you are local Ill share pics, but lets meet and just see.
Anyways if you think women should have a right to spank the men they are with, then please let me know you are out there.

Lastly, I am deliberately not looking for a full fledged leather Goddess ... but if you like my profile and are heavily into Ds, and wouldnt eat me alive...I want a girlfriend that spanks, not a Mistress

Thank you for reading my profile and if you are here, I hope I am for you and you are for me....since I can imagine how happy we could be!
2/16/2015 4:14:29 PM
Its better to be strict.
I think punishment should be meaningful or why do it?

\there is no point in being a sex slave if she isn't a perverted soul that will use you in the filthiest of ways.

Outside the bedroom you can have romance
2/16/2015 4:10:42 PM
I think about anal training, stretched, enema to empty, and strap-on.
\\\the thought of a female make me her fuck hole and doing me and teaching me this form of sexual submission to her and to who she tells me...but not before she has made me hers, and fully functional that way.

I think about her demanding oral service and expecting it on demand.The concept of passive oral service where I stimulate her genitals with my mouth and tongue, but also the active or dominant form or oral server were she pushes herself on me and jerks off using me...my tongue, but any part of me just used to masturbate, rubbed on, humped, jerked on,

I am curious about water sports. \i want to be taught to give complete oral service and not stop short.
misswalker39
 
 Age: 29
  Maine