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| I am a SSBBW... 5'5", almost 300lbs, 48DD bust. I have long, straight, red hair; pale, freckled skin, and hazel eyes. I have been in the lifestyle for a relatively short time, but I have been learning...talking with those in the lifestyle; watching play; going to classes; being mentored and participating as a top and as a bottom. I am comfortable now calling myself a switch.
In this community I finally feel like I belong. For the first time in my life, every part of me...every part...is accepted and loved and even admired. This is living.
I am searching for new D/s relationships. Anyone I play with must be single or in an open relationship. DO NOT CONTACT ME IF IT IS YOUR INTENTION TO CHEAT ON YOUR CURRENT PARTNER. I will never contribute to any type of betrayal, and I will not put up with lies. I am heteroflexible and (potentially) polyamorous and enjoy playing with couples (and/or multiple singles) of any orientation and gender.
AS A DOMME
Any sub I take on must understand that they are there to meet my needs and be in my service. A sub's desires will be met as a reward, and on my time schedule. Subs who would like to be considered may message me, but I don't accept friend requests from people I have not met in person or talked to extensively. However, I'm happy to meet in person anyone who comes to a munch or a meet and greet event I am attending.
I've come to realize that I desire a LTR with a 24/7 submissive. However, that takes time, much effort on my part and a strong committment on the part of the sub. So, although eventually I'd like a LTR, I am looking right now for men who want to get to know me on a personal level (take me on dates), be my bottom if and when I request it, and do chores for me. I will like my subs to be active in the bdsm community and attend events with me if a relationship is to progress.
AS A SUB
I am a switch and crave also to serve and please. I show my affection through service (which, I'm sure is why I feel loved when my subs serve me). I do, however, because of my aggressive nature, sometimes desire to be manhandled and forced to submit in sexual situations. A dom may use me as he wishes, but occasionally I may need to be subdued first. I'd like a dom who is able to cherish my total submission as the gift it is, just as I cherish those who sub for me. I long to find someone who can reduce me to a quivering mass of spent humanity whispering at their feet, "I am yours".
AS PART OF A POLY GROUP
I'D like to explore being part of a poly family.
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