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Hetero Male Master, 49,  Minneapolis, Minnesota
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I am here to meet people that are fun and open-minded. I am a financially comfortable, established professional who is finally trying to make time for some fun. All work and no play is threatening to make me a dull boy.

I am in an ethically non-monomogous relationship. My girlfriend does not live locally and I am looking for someone to hang out with and possibly have some adult fun. If things work out youre interested to join me and my girlfriend in any, some, or all of the following socializing, local BDSM events, attending ropeshibari classes, playing together. I am looking for casual interactions at first. I realize things have to start somewhere.

Let me know if youre interested in chatting, comparing notes, playing, or anything in between. Send me an email in here, and lets see where things go.

*I have tried to correct my location and even messaged tech-support for the webpage. But nothing seems to be happening, and they dont reply. I am here in Minnesota, no longer in Northern California.

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59 Rope bunny

57 Masochist

52 Owner

47 Submissive

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 Dominant Male



 6' 1"

 215 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Friends Only

A Poly Household



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 Massage (Giving) (Expert)





 Amusement Parks


 Coffee Shops


 Renaissance Faires





 Skate Boarding

 Yoga (Beginner)

 Anal Play




 Canes and Crops




 Massage (Getting)


 Orgasm Denial

 Public Play

 Role Playing





 Wax play


 Comedy Shows


 Body Art



 Lifestyle BDSM




 Horror Movies

 Curious About:

 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community

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Journal Entries:
9/29/2016 9:02:41 AM
I honestly don't know if this quote is a genuinely original thought I had, or something I heard somewhere. But it's stuck with me and I've been playing it through in my head.

"Submission is a gift. While Domination is a responsibility."

The sub gives so much. Their trust, vulnerability, body, heart, and even their innocence sometimes. These things and many more are a precious gift to be cherished and protected. Not just something to be expected or demanded of them.

I see, or here about so many so called Doms giving people they just met, or are just first  messaging commands or instructions. I don't understand this. How can you direct or command someone you don't even know? You don't understand them, what makes them tick, or what their needs may or may not be.

In my opinion, a true Dom should work to empower, encourage, and guide their submissive to be best version of themself that they can be. Part of that best version has to be what the sub wants, not just what the Dom decides.

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