Collarspace.com - The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet

The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet

Horizontal Line
Vertical Line
Hetero Male Master, 49,  Minneapolis, Minnesota
Horizontal Line

Horizontal Line

BearPaws

BearPaws - photo 1
BearPaws - photo 2
BearPaws - photo 3
BearPaws - photo 4

Horizontal Line

Friends:
TheAlphessraunchyhopp

Horizontal Line

Vertical Line

I am here to meet people that are fun and open-minded. I am a financially comfortable, established professional who is finally trying to make time for some fun. All work and no play is threatening to make me a dull boy.

I am in an ethically non-monomogous relationship. My girlfriend does not live locally and I am looking for someone to hang out with and possibly have some adult fun. If things work out youre interested to join me and my girlfriend in any, some, or all of the following socializing, local BDSM events, attending ropeshibari classes, playing together. I am looking for casual interactions at first. I realize things have to start somewhere.

Let me know if youre interested in chatting, comparing notes, playing, or anything in between. Send me an email in here, and lets see where things go.

*I have tried to correct my location and even messaged tech-support for the webpage. But nothing seems to be happening, and they dont reply. I am here in Minnesota, no longer in Northern California.


Results from bdsmtest.org

89 Voyeur

87 Non-monogamist

87 Switch

85 Exhibitionist

84 Dominant

81 Experimentalist

80 Rigger

74 Sadist

68 MasterMistress

63 Brat tamer

61 Degrader

59 Rope bunny

57 Masochist

52 Owner

47 Submissive

40 Primal (Hunter)

32 DaddyMommy

30 Brat 28 Primal (Prey)

27 Ageplayer

21 Slave

16 Degradee

15 Vanilla

9 GirlBoy

9 Pet

bdsmtest.orgresult.?id2131124

Username:

Description:

City:

State:

Height:

Weight:

Age:

Sexuality:

Ethnicity:

Joined:

Last Online:

 BearPaws

 Dominant Male

 Minneapolis 

 Minnesota

 6' 1"

 215 lbs

 49

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 08/13/12

 05/06/21

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Friends Only

A Poly Household

 Loves:

 Exhibitionism

 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Spanking

 Cooking

 Tattoos

 Likes:

 Amusement Parks

 Clubbing

 Coffee Shops

 Movies

 Renaissance Faires

 Shopping

 Travel

 Volunteerism

 Rollerblading

 Skate Boarding

 Yoga (Beginner)

 Anal Play

 Begging

 Blindfolds

 Bondage

 Canes and Crops

 Collars

 Corsets

 Leashes

 Massage (Getting)

 Munches

 Orgasm Denial

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Shibari

 Suspension

 Uniforms

 Vibrators

 Wax play

 Whips

 Comedy Shows

 Sitcoms

 Body Art

 Drawing

 Photography

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Polyamory

 Swinging

 Tolerates:

 Horror Movies

 Curious About:

 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community

 Fire Play

Horizontal Line

Journal Entries:
9/29/2016 9:02:41 AM
I honestly don't know if this quote is a genuinely original thought I had, or something I heard somewhere. But it's stuck with me and I've been playing it through in my head.

"Submission is a gift. While Domination is a responsibility."

The sub gives so much. Their trust, vulnerability, body, heart, and even their innocence sometimes. These things and many more are a precious gift to be cherished and protected. Not just something to be expected or demanded of them.

I see, or here about so many so called Doms giving people they just met, or are just first  messaging commands or instructions. I don't understand this. How can you direct or command someone you don't even know? You don't understand them, what makes them tick, or what their needs may or may not be.

In my opinion, a true Dom should work to empower, encourage, and guide their submissive to be best version of themself that they can be. Part of that best version has to be what the sub wants, not just what the Dom decides.



Vertical Line

Vertical Line

Copyright © 2021 Collarspace.com and VSpin.net  
18 U.S.C. 2257 Record-Keeping Compliance Statement

Vertical Line



DMCA |  Privacy |  Spam |  Support |  Dir | TOS

Horizontal Line