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BeMyPleasure

Hi. I've been on CollarMe/Space for some time now -- with some good and a lot of bad results over time.  But the time spent here has been worth it, because it clears up what I want to find and what I don't want.  But first, some information about me --
  • I have over 20 years of BDSM experience and have owned 3 slaves (their preferred way of thinking about themselves) and have trained a number of other subs and slaves.  
  • Training under contract for limited or extended periods of time is available for females (males in couples permitted to observe), but my preference is to find a sub or slave for long term service.
  • I live very comfortably (and alone) in a large beautiful house near my country club.
  • I have traveled the world extensively (more than 80 countries) and have lived abroad 4 times and I very much appreciate people from other countries and cultures.
  • I am well-educated with a Masters degree in International Affairs.
  • I am now retired and spend most mornings playing golf with friends at the club, but I miss very much coming home to someone I care about.
  • I believe very much in exercising responsible ownership of a sub or slave, meaning I accept happily my position and all that entails.
  • I enjoy caring for my sub or slave more than imposing pain on her (although the need for training and discipline is something that goes with my role)
  • Yes, I am well acquainted with the use of binds, cuffs, gags, spreaders, anal toys, floggers, whips, canes, etc., as well as with all kinds of fun toys.
  • I've also been known to use humiliation and degradation (public and private) among my "talents".
  • I am always very careful to adhere to hard limits -- my own include toilet games, kids, anything illegal, hitting with my fist, and causing any long term harm to my slave or sub.
  • During the time we are getting to know each other, you may feel free to ask anything and can rely on getting an honest and complete answer.
What I seek in a sub or slave --
  • Drug and disease free -- mandatory. Also, no criminal convictions.
  • Your service focus must be on providing pleasure to your Master.  I don't care about domestic service, because I have a housekeeper.  
  • I prefer that you be bisexual, although that is not necessary.  If you would like to have a sister, you may look for another sub or slave subject to my approval. If you are bisexual, I will permit you to satisfy that part of your bisexuality -- again, with my prior approval.
  • All of your body openings must be open for my use at all times.  If you are really into anal and oral (giving AND receiving), that's a major plus.
  • You should be in shape or at least height and weight proportionate.
  • Experience in BDSM is NOT required.
  • You should be between 18 and 45 years old.  
In return for your service, you will be well treated and cared for at all times, even if that means that "tough love" is required sometimes or even most of the time.  If you want a caring, loving Dom or Master, or even if you want a Daddy Dom (I do have experience), I can be that for you.  If you want a tougher Master who is more inclined toward the sadistic, I know how to be that as well.  The point is -- at the end of the day, I will value you based on your ability to be a true "pleasure sub" or "pleasure slave".
Two other quick notes:  (1) Don't approach me if you want children.  I expect you to be on some method of effective birth control (and no, condoms don't work). (2) Many subs and slaves on here want money to relocate or to pay bills or something like that.  There are only very few limited cases where I might help you out -- I will never send you money by wire transfer.  But if you want to relocate to me, I am willing either to pay for your ticket in your name with you picking up the ticket at your airport (in other words, it will not be available for you to turn into cash -- this, sadly, is to prevent scams).  In addition, if you come here, I may agree in advance to repay any of your friends or family who pay for your ticket, but only AFTER you arrive here.  The same applies for any debts you may have that I agree to pay for AFTER you arrive here.
As I said, I've been on CollarMe/Space for some time, and it's sad to say that there are many scam artists out there.  I've seen most of them, and I regret having to say such base things here, but I just want you to understand in advance where I stand.
I sincerely wish to find a beautiful young sub or slave who will want to serve by providing pleasure.  I hope that's you, and I hope you will want to engage in getting to know each other with the goal of finding what we both desire.
Sir Aaron
russianjewelz
 
 Age: 44
 San Jose, California