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Hello ...

I wish I could clearly define what I think D/s is. Sometimes I think it's a sort of a throwback to a more traditional lifestyle. It is beyond my imagination why a man would be anything other than a strong (and yes by definition I suppose) a Dominant partner in a relationship. Anything other than that baffles me - but, to each their own I guess.

It appears to me, that - to many - this D/s life is all about rules/regulations and specific behavior by both parties.

I'm not-so-sure I can be 'pigeon-holed' within those confines. I'm more of an individualist - and believe that EVERYTHING ABOUT (including the dynamics OF) a relationship should be defined by you-and-I, and NOT by what others opinions and/or rituals are.

I've always been NATURALLY a 'bit' (or more) quietly dominant - and - therefore been attracted to ladies who are NATURALLY a 'bit' (or more) softly and affectionately submissive in their nature (as it relates to most parts of their day-to-day life.)

It's as natural as baseball, hot dogs, and 'apple pie' to me.
I respect the idio-syncracies (sp?) of it all and feel comfortable 'taking the lead' ... EVEN IF 'taking the lead' is simply an implied expectation of 'YOU' being comfortable, and/or tending to certain areas of the relationship. (understanding and appreciating roles you ask?) ... (YES - it works for me)

I truly cherish and honor the *LADY* (The 'Little / Daddy's Girl?) who enjoys and understands the love, honor and respect I shower her with - upon gaining and earning her gentle willingness as the NON-lead ... I/e - the submissive. (again - by definition I suppose)

Easy enough.

Thru my adult life, the most powerful of my relationships were those where the D/s aspect just sort of 'evolved' into something 'un-believeable' ... and very very good. It was NOT scripted. (as such)

I enjoy 'The Lead' and I am an excellent mentor and coach.
I'll 'take a risk' but also show patience and understanding.

There's a lot more 'about me' that I'll certainly share if this site proves to be interesting and worth my time.
(thus far it 'honestly' hasn't)
This CM 'experience' seems to be an exercise in futility.

Wouldn't you agree?

I'm a goal driven professional, (always) a home owner, (as long as I keep paying the mortgage) a father (he's 19 and will be on his own sometime soon - I hope!) (lol) and an otherwise fairly normal individual. (If that's all in the 'normal range)
My interests in 'real life' are many and varied - from the 'zany' to the 'serious'

I don't have much of a sense of humor. I recall saying something funny (once) back in '97 or '98 - but that's about it.
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If you believe *THAT* ... than I'd like to tell you about
'This Bridge In Brooklyn' that I'm aware is available. :)

Though I'm usually NOT at a loss for words - I find myself a bit perplexed as just what additionally to write here.
BE CERTAIN !! ... My intimate desires are varied and "never dull"

However I'm not the sort that feels good about inflicting severe pain on a woman I adore.
I'm more apt to be playing the role of a 'Daddy Figure' ... It's always been part of who I am in the relationship.

Toys? ... and 'play' activities outside of those defined as vanilla?
........certainly! .......

An agreeable amount of Dominant/submissive "fun" is always exciting ... but I'm not the sort that 'gets off' on a viscious sort of pain. I have too much respect for a woman to go down that road.
'SAFE' - applied - and mutually agreed upon 'FUN' pain is fine ... but that's about it.

Just about 'everything else' (with respected limits) is on the table and generally, I'll have an appetite for it.

To / for / and with ---> the right *LADY* ...
(Again - that may also include a 'Little' / 'Daddy's' girl)

I will be pleased to feast from the smorgasboard of individualism that you bring to our banquet.

I'd honestly like to find a lady that would enjoy exploring and living the submissive streak that lives within her - as much as I would enjoy further exploring and living
my dominant side

Safely - and within the confines of a GREATER relationship.

I'm an average built guy so, THIN to AVERAGE weight is a MUST (non-negiotiable) ...

To clarify ... I'm not speaking of a 'few extra pounds' ... (5 / 10 / 15) however 30, 40 50, 60 is a few extra EXTRA.
Could we become friends? ...
SURE!
Chat a bit? ... SURE!
Beyond that?
It's never 'intimately' happened before,
so I kinda doubt it now.

Please consider dropping me a note - I WILL reply, and share more pictures, information about me etc. as I would expect you to do as well.

No jokes please. I'm as serious about this, as I can be. Have a GREAT day!

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kissamyka
 
 Age: 24
 Baltimore, Maryland