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I do not care whether you label yourself as a slave, sub, switch or Dominant; everyone has their definition of each label. However I do not believe that a single label can define a person, including myself.  The purpose of this is to define what I need.  You will have many roles; you will be my toy, my lover, my servant, my masochist....my slave.  I will be your Master, Dominant, Lover and at times your Daddy.    Submission must be complete and total yet I will not treat you as a doormat.  There is a cost to your submission and I do not intend to be foolish with it.  You will willingly submit your mind and body to me. You will trust me, I will use you and we will be happy.    You should be able to be emotionally engaged in the relationship, not disassociated from your body. Without your mind your body is nothing but a warm doll. (Though aspects of doll play do intrigue me). You must want to learn about me and more importantly about yourself so that we may grow in our relationship.  Being a slave will not mean I will not value you opinion or knowledge.  Your knowledge is not something to be kept hidden away from the rest of the world.  You might, after all, teach me something. You will learn to accept the duality of your nature; being owned as property and yet being very well cared for, cherished and adored by her Master.  However none of this will be possible without open and honest communication. If you are not happy in the relationship then something is wrong.  If you do not speak up and tell me you are not happy then something is terribly wrong.    You should be selfless and in touch with your emotions and able to express them without hesitation. You will tell me all your needs, desires and fantasies, no matter how dark, twisted or embarrassed they make you feel; and I will take time to address them one by one so I may more effectively care and provide for you.     Outside of the house we will appear vanilla but there will be little things that I do to remind you of your position while in public, like holding your wrist instead of you hand, a gaze, a hand cue or something else discreet when I consider your behavior out of line. When in public you will be obedient and submissive however I will not subject you to abject public humiliation. Though when around understanding friends your submission and my control will be far more evident.    You will be expected to perform some domestic duties once mine. You will have all of your life’s needs provided for. This includes medical care if you do not hold an outside job that provides it. If you do hold a job the money you earn will be yours but so long as you are mine you will not spend it without my permission.    You should be willing to relocate however, I do not expect you, nor will I ask you to relocate after a few emails or phone calls. Nor will I expect you to bear the burden of any travel or moving expenses yourself. I am not into online domination or long distance relationships.  If you fine me appealing and are willing to travel to meet me I will be more than happy to accommodate you.  However, I will not send you money.    I know no one is perfect, including myself but I do have some weight restrictions. I think it is best to just say this: If you are more than 65% of my weight or a BMI over 25 I am not interested. I do attend a gym three times a week for two hours or more each time. I would expect you to take care of your body at least as well as I do mine.    I am strict but not unreasonable, correcting you on the spot for minor indiscretion (grabbing your hair to reenforce a verbal warning, slapping your face or a quick spanking). At times I will simply use you to satisfy my sexual needs. At other times you will satisfy my need for affection (I would just as soon have you curl up on my lap to watch a movie as I would use you). There will be times when I will need to make you suffer pain and humiliation for my own satisfaction. This is my fetish. There is something erotic for me about seeing a girl suffer pain or humiliation. I can even remember the first time I felt this feeling, in the second grade, towards my “girlfriend” at the time. Not that I knew what the feeling was but obviously something very powerful happened because I remember the incident so vividly.     My more specific interests or fetishes are in bondage (rope and chain) impact play and sadism. I particularly enjoy shibari (or Insex) style rope bondage of which I am fairly decent at. I have been able to incorporate some knowledge from my years of tactical rescue into my rope bondage style which does include rope suspension. I also enjoy heavy chain bondage and find some form of continual light bondage extremely arousing. By this I mean you wearing a collar, leather cuffs and the like. Or being bound with chains or ropes at night to restrict some of your movements or just to make you slightly uncomfortable and dependent upon me.    Tears are sexy and very arousing for me and I love the sexy marks left by a cane on a woman’s shapely body. I do have a casual interest in puppy/pet play and toy/doll play but do not foresee ever having a relationship based strictly on something like this. I also enjoy physical domination in general. I love to grab a woman and toss her around lead her by the hair and generally have my way with her. This is where petiteness is advantageous. [little head] Petite girls quickly go to the top of the list. I really like to toss around and cuddle a petite girl[\little head].      I am very self sufficient. I enjoy working on my house, car, motorcycle and cooking my own meals; even bread. I am very methodical and thoughtful. Thus I rarely do anything without thinking it over. I am very creative and more likely to look for dungeon items in a Grainger or McMaster Carr catalog than a BDSM catalog. I am also vary capable of building my own devices and finding new uses for every day items and tools. I am slowly teaching myself how to MIG weld having purchased a very good welder a while back as a Christmas present to myself. You can guess why I want to be able to weld; if not ask.     I am emotionally stable albeit somewhat sensitive. I am financially stable and have a good career with a good company. I own my own house and have designed a nice workshop dungeon in the basement. I even have track bolted to the ceiling. It was there long before the world heard of Christian Grey and his red room of pain.     I don’t go out for the sake of going out, I’m too introverted for that.. I tend to have trouble with my inner monologue. It has always been difficult to speak in politically correct terms. Sometimes this bluntness can come across as cruel or at least undiplomatic As a result I tend to keep to myself.     I do not put someone 'under consideration' lightly (I actually dislike that term but will use it here). We have to meet first; then develop a relationship and more importantly a strong trust. After some time when, I feel it is appropriate, I will place you 'under consideration'. I believe being under consideration to be more analogous to an engagement. Once under consideration it will be my decision as to whether to bestow upon you my collar. However, you must offer yourself to me for my consideration. Once you are under consideration, you will not have limits of your own. Once a trust is developed I may ask for you to audition for me. This will be a set period of time where you will accept only my limits.      I do not have my heart set on having a poly household but a house with two slaves or a slave and a sub/switch would be a dream come true. If I find a slave who can meet most of my needs I will consider myself blessed and my search over.      My limits: You will be drug and disease free, not partake in any illegal activities, nor be forced or allowed to engage in coprophilia or bestiality, sharing or prostitution.     Thank you for reading my entire profile. I hope I have been clear about my needs and maybe you could fulfill them.     One last thing: If you have found what I have written appealing I ask that you contact me. Please do not feel intimidated as I do not subscribe to the belief that subs should not be the ones to contact potential Doms. You will, after all, be the one to make the decision to offer yourself to me or any other Dom or Master. For now it is your decision. If you do send me a message please put some thought into it. I won't respond to single word or sentence messages.  If you are a brat and see the preceding as a means to a verbal punishment you are mistaking.