My name is Kal, I in my late 20's, I live in New Orleans and am a professional paranormal investigator and occult researcher. I am divorced, was married for about 3 years. I also work as a gaming division investigator for the largest casino company in the world.

I have been interested in BDSM since I was about 10 years old. I remember seeing a movie on HBO where a dominatrix was whipping a guy. I kept wondering "Why is that woman hurting that guy?" But through it all I was really turned on.

As I got older I really wanted to learn more about BDSM. Over the years I've dated a couple of girls that were into bondage a little, but I've never met anyone that was hardcore into it.

I want to be dominated hard. Basically I want a woman that will practically rape me mentally and physically. I have a raging foot fetish. I like to lick boots and shoes, socks and feet....you name it. I'm really into foot and shoes smelling. I would love to find a dominatrix with VERY smelly feet and shoes, who likes to have her feet smelled, kissed and eventually licked clean.

Other interests include CBT, strap-on ass rapings, being spit on or in the mouth, nipple torture....and maybe golden/brown showers....I'm still sort of undecided on that.

The only limits I have would be cutting or slicing, anything being inserted into my penis or being blindfolded and left in the silence. Anything other than those things I am totally open for.

In closing, I am looking for a woman that I can turn over complete control to. I don't want a "safe word" or anything else where I have a degree of control. I want to be bound, and become a literal slave to the dominatrix.

I'm guessing it's because I run my own detective firm and have a pretty good position at a large company. I'm usually in a position of authority. I want to give all of that up, be dominated, raped and owned.