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Banem

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Those that know me could say I’m pretty direct and to the point. Sometimes long winded and tend to over explain, and if you're not familiar with me I am can often times be either intimidating, loud, and/or crass. However, I'm pretty friendly once you get to know me. I've never turned down a conversation with someone I don't know. Deep down I'm a very laid back individual, and tend to share my thoughts and opinions freely and without concern for my own reasons. Brutal honesty and opinion means you don't have to wonder what I'm thinking and does away with the entire need for you to wonder if I like you or not. This makes me an interesting person but better that then any alternative. I still like a quiet evening of good food, close friends and adult conversation as much as I like loud music, chains, rope, leather, and the sounds of screams heard a block over. I think of myself as a connoisseur of both. In the real world, I’m a musician and IT geek. I’m in a passionate, loving relationship with a fellow Domme (it’s an interesting dynamic and makes for some fun times), and find ways to take my sadistic streak out on the public while not getting into trouble. As for my kink I have a rather large fetish list , so it's safe to say I am into A LOT. I've been involved with the lifestyle for 13 years and am an active member of the local community. I'm mainly into protocol, shibari, givings of pain, etc. I have something of a sadistic streak (both mental and physical) and enjoy it. I'm very firm and exacting but can adapt to most situations depending on what is needed. Presently I am looking for a live in 24/7 submissive or slave. A female partner of like minded interests and passions. As I said, I am currently in a relationship though it is an open poly relationship - I figured I would point that out now as to not cause any confusion later on or waste anyone's time. I'm in fact very much in love with her and she comes as part of the package, so if this will be a problem for you should move on. She does not fill the role in my life as a bottom of any sort...and that is where you come in, no? If servicing two Dominants is not you thing, don't worry, it wont be part of the deal. If you like the idea, then well, we are more than happy to help. I'm always up for talking, playing, and other forms of debauchery though. And if something I've said strikes your fancy, please by all means message me. With that, I will leave you to the rest of your searching.