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Hetero Male Dominant, 67,  Montgomery, Alabama
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The one I am seeking is a intelligent devoted female sub or slave. She has her opinions and can think for herself. She understands that her submission is the fulfillment of both her need and mine.

She will be treated with firmness and with respect as a person (not to be confused with her role as a sub/slave). We will explore her limits but they will be respected. She will receive my love and protection (not to mention training) and will respond with love, devotion and she will of course obey my wishes.

A relationship like this would be ltr and 24/7. Not that she will spend 24/7 in leather and chains but I will be in control. I do not believe that control requires micromanagement. quite the opposite if you are in control you do not need to micromanage. I also believe that first you have to control yourself, then you can think about controlling others.

Keep in mind that I have a wide variety of interests, far more extensive than is listed here and which we can eventually explore while respecting her limits.

Having said all this I must add that the relationship with the person comes first. If there isn't a connection between the people there cannot be a proper connection between the Dom and sub.
PS I like BBWs as much as I do smaller women.
I have recently become interested in some couples.












 Dominant Male



 5' 9"

 215 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Sub/Sub Couples

 Lives For:

 SCA (Expert)




 Renaissance Faires




 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship


 Breast Play

 Rear End Play

 Being Massaged

 Orgasm Control

 Sensory Play

 Spanking you

 Board Games


 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies

 Science Fiction

 TV News

 Conservative Politics

 Intellectual Discourse


 Country Music





 Martial Arts

 Canes and Crops


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Erotic touch

 Foot Worship


 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training


 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Speech Restrictions




 Card Games



 Online Chatrooms

 Role Playing Games


 True Crime

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing




 Libertarian Politics



 1950s Lifestyle


 Lifestyle BDSM



 Classical Music

 Folk Music





 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Gambling (Beginner)

 Arcade Games

 Blue Grass

 Curious About:



 Genital Punishment


 Sensation Play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay


 Wax Play

 Paranormal Phenomena





 Bar Hopping

 Bird Watching (Beginner)

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Going to the Opera


 Electrical Play


 G-spot Stimulation

 Fire Play

 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Simulation Games

 Female Sovereignty


 Alternative Music

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 New Age Music



 Fishing (Beginner)


 Romance Novels




 Hip Hop Music

 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
8/30/2015 9:10:43 PM
Looking over profiles I find that once you eliminate everything that will get you ignored you can't contact people.

5/25/2012 10:07:53 AM

It is really sad when two people get upset with each other because they each think the other is ignoring them.

4/20/2011 1:14:10 PM
Isn't it strange that women say how refreshing it is to find a Dom who wants to know them not just their kinks. Then two weeks later they have commited to someone who they just met on here!

3/17/2011 1:34:47 PM
A true master is always a student. When you stop learning you stagnate.

7/9/2010 3:57:58 AM
Why do I keep getting contacted by Dommes when there is nothing in my profile or makeup to give them reason to think i want to be their sub?????????????????

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