I open this entry with a question ...Why/How is Alpha so seperate from DOM? The "doms" that I see/meet almost appear to be playing a role or an act ...and the other Alphas that I have met come by the position so naturally.
A friend in the life has informed Me that DOMS demand and Alphas expect....for example a DOM will tell a sub to do something to turn him on or please him....Alphas will say " Be your true self and that will bring endless pleasure" |