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I am an experienced Dom who believes that D/s is a state of mind. The feelings should stir from within and should never be considered roleplay. Deep down I have always craved having control of others and as I have grown older so the craving has grown with me. I first "discovered" D/s when I was around 20 and over the years I have trained with experienced Doms, owned a number of subs, and spent a lot of time learning exactly what I seek from D/s.
I am currently sub-free and seek a female sub who shares my belief that D/s is something beautiful to treasure, not tacky roleplay . I believe that D/s should exist as part of a loving serious relationship. It should always be present, not switched on and off.
I seek a sub who craves to have someone control her life - not merely a roleplayer or a bedroom only sub. I am not into the extremes of D/s (such as needle play etc) and I prefer lace to leather. I do however love a sub to experience mild pain (spanking, whips, racks etc) and I love to push a sub with all forms of humiliation.
My ideal sub would be one where to the outside world our relationship appeared vanilla, yet I had total control of her. A sub who gave herself fully, never holding back, and who served and obeyed without question - not disobeying as she craved punishment. She would have a career, friends and a family, and while she looked elegant sat at the table during a dinner party, just one knowing glance from me would remind her of her place.
I believe that a D/s relationship should be based upon love and trust, rather than fear and have lots of variety. Of course cuffs and ball gags would play a part, but so would lace, romance and cuddles.
I am happy to chat with newbies and experienced subs but if you only consider D/s to be roleplay which is turned on and off, then I fear you are not for me, but wish you well in your search.
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