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Bainne

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I'm not actively seeking anything other than penpals. I'm open to the thought that those friendships might grow into more, but if you're looking for anything other than fun conversation in the near term you should probably keep searching. I'm in an incredibly busy period of my work & personal life, tend to go through periods of high interest and then forget to log on here for several weeks. If you'd like to be my buddy, please have realistic expectations there.
I'm looking for a lot of things, some of which appear to be at odds with each other I'd love to find a Daddy to snuggle my little side, a sub to torment and tease, a dom/me to please and pleasure, littles and sweeties who want to nurse at my bosom, kinky friends to connect with. As a little I'm a (nonsexual) sweetie pie; I'm shy, love big boxes of crayons, and need lot of cuddles and reassurance. As sub I'm a slutty marshmallow and love to serve; I'm the absolute opposite of a brat. As a domme I'm a (more than) slightly sadistic bitch; I want to make you whimper and beg. As a milkmaid I'm a completely nonsexual caretaker type; I'll be your kind wet-nurse or nanny and let you nurse while your cares drift away.

When it comes to D/s I don't submit to or dominate women, it pushes not-fun buttons of mine. Male identified, agender, gender-queer, or otherwise non female identified people usually fall into my "yes, please" column. My hard limits list is a bit deceiving- there are a number of things I'd never be willing to bottom for (orgasm control, humlilation, gags, for a start) that I love doing/using with my sub. If you're not sure, just ask.
I'm pansexual, your personality and way of looking at the world are far more important to me than your gender. Generally I click best with people who fall (or dance!) outside of "mainstream" sexuality (even if you're kinky) in some way- queer, trans*, gender-nonconforming, gray-a, etc. I'm certainly open to being buddies with straight cis people, it's just less likely we'll have a lot in common.

I fall somewhere under the "gray-A" umbrella; I'm primarily attracted to how people think and see the world, everything else is secondary. Approach me on a purely sexual level and you'll leave me dryer than the Sahara, tickle my curiosity or intellect and I'm yours for the taking. On the gender spectrum "agender" describes me better (or less poorly) than anything else. I'm perceived as female by most people and not fussed by it, but my gender doesn't fall within the top 10 (or even top 50) adjectives I'd use to describe myself. That said, I do have pretty spectacular tits.

My primary kink at the moment is lactation/adult breastfeeding, and I'm currently lactating (as a result of induced lactation). Nursing for me is the opposite of sexual, it makes the thought of sex pretty gross to me. I don't want to see, touch, or in any way interact with the genitals of my nursing buddies, and you won't be seeing, touching, or in any way interacting with my below the belt bits.
I don't phone, text, or give out skype/kik/other contact unless we've been exchanging messages for a while. Seriously, don't ask, you'll just ruin a perfectly nice conversation.

If you made it through my profile and are still interested drop me a message.
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 Age: 25
 New York, New York