okay theres several real big reasons i dont text,skype or yahoo chat with people right off the bat.

1. I can block you yes but if your one of those persistant types you might just see it as a excuse to create multiple accounts and bother me....I have had it done before so it makes me wary of giving my sn out. The guy went even so far as to give it to his friends so they can harrass me...now see why i shy away from giving out my screen name?

2. I dont give out my number to people i just meet i have a family and god knows i dont want people appearing at my front door cause they got my info off some stupid finder site.

3. I dont cam with people i dont know because all you really want is me to give you a show and i am sorry but i have more respect for myself then getting naked for a stranger.

4. I want to know if we have chemistry cause even if you arent a psycho if i cant get lost on a conversation where you can actually THINK about what you say before you type it then how can i talk to you on messenger? I mean i spent 6 convos trading hi how was your days with someone and thats all that was said...do i want to give that person my messenger? NO

So please if you cannot respect this limit go bother someone else cause i am not going to be forced, manipulated or guilted into doing something i dont feel comfortable doing.....

oh and for those who thinks calling me a guy, or a bot will get me to cam with them...Honey i dont want to know someone who thinks its nice to insult people to get what they want so thank you for weeding YOURSELF out

um i feel like i need to put it out there that telling me what you want to do to me, sending me a sex story or generally telling me im rape material isn't pleasant. oh and anything piercing my flesh...hooks, needles forks...etc HARD LIMIT

so people are wondering what im looking for....well honestly im not looking for anything in particular so lets just get to know each other

okay and another thing...please dont tell me your not like everyone else because honestly between us....everyone says that...so just prove it and talk to me for awhile without trying to show your domliness

I am very amused that there are men who really take the time to insult and judge people in the first message and then block them without waiting for a reply. Do they really think it will ruin anyones day? Or is it just a preemptive strike in case of rejection? Im actually curious...