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I am a bottom/sub, pure and simple, and have no interest in being a Top or Domme for anyone. I'd love to chat about ideas and make new friends with anyone, but if you're a sub/slave please do NOT message me with the expectation of being topped, IRL or virtually.
BDSM is an integral part of who i am, and is a mandatory aspect of any relationship that i would consider getting into.
I'm hoping to find a fun partner who can share both kink and non-kink pleasures. I enjoy many adventurous activities as well as more sedate hobbies around the house. It would be nice to run into someone with whom i may form a more significant bond. (yes, that means the dreaded LTR :P)
Specifics of my kink interests are many and varied, and i'm open to most ideas. That doesn't tell you much, does it! Guess you'll have to engage me in conversation to find out more :-)
I have found (through experience) that i don't fit the Old Guard or Gorean lifestyles very well. I'm more of a feisty bottom who enjoys playful (although still strict) scenes. The struggle and power exchange are central to my turn-ons in a scene, with pain and humiliation being nice diversions from time to time. But i also feel that a good bit of compromise is necessary for both partners - it is very rare to find two people whose kinks match perfectly!
Still with me? Again, chatting and exchanging ideas is fun, but i am not interested in on-line D/s relationships, phone sex or relocating.
I believe that it's very possible - and healthy, even - for people to have partners outside of their primary relationship once a secure trust is established. However, i also believe in full disclosure to all parties involved. I am adamant about that, so please don't make me a secret.
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