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Hello and thank you for visiting my profile.
I asked you to visit me here for you to know more about me and because there was something about your profile that intrigued me. Given whats out there on this site to find you means that there was more than just a pic and some words. It means that there is something special about you that appealed to my search to find that long sought after sub and a person who who shares similar views to settle into a life of mutual trust, loyalty, and a profound thirst for an expedition or adventure, sensuality, and sexuality.
Simply put I am a Dom who wants to inspire you to be more of who you were meant to be and not what others want you to be. I am a Dom who wants to nurture and discover those fragments of who you are supporting those traits that need to be helped and working on those that need a bit more guidance. I want to do this in the context of a loving, warm, safe, environment, that allows for you to express who you are without restriction or fear of exposing those things that make you unique. In short I am a gentleman Dom, a throwback to an era were the value of a person was held in the highest of esteem and not treat as chattel the person who is before me.
Who am I?
At 59 years of age it might surprise you to read that I still ask myself that question on occasion.
As a semi-retired and former investment banker I would have answered in my professional youth that I and others were the masters of the universe. It certainly felt that way buying and selling companies worldwide, making markets or recovering from those that collapsed. But that youthful me was just coming into his own and after thirty years of world travel and living abroad on various continents I came to learn that I wasnt a master of a universe but more akin to a captain on a vessel caught in its currents that I had degrees of control to steer his ship and eventual into a safe harbor. What I learned after more than 30 years in the business is that the profession was suited for me as I was Dominate of opinion and directing others views to mine. That I was more creative in problem solving than others, and found inventive ways to flow within the currents of the profession. So part of who I am was in my profession.
The other parts of who I am is wrapped in my history of being a father of two grown women which I loved being and perhaps despite my age will be lucky enough again to be. At least that is my intention. For being a good father is nurturing the soul in front of you. It is being patient and understanding. Being a good father understands the difficulty of growth and the awesome responsibility in guiding that growth. It is also knowing when to set stronger parameters and knowing when to say no. So part of who I am is taking those attributes of being a father as part of me and trying to apply them daily.
What else is there to me?
I am or at least think I am a writer, a visionary, a futurist, a lustful bugger as my Brit friends would say, a healthy heterosexual, and a man who loves to travel and keep busy by keeping one foot in business and the other doing other things like travel, take photos, camp, write, sketch, ride horses, paraglide, and supporting my own philanthropy for kids at risk.
And of the Dom in me? What of that?
The best way I can describe it is this.
Think of yourself as a kaleidoscope and I the guiding hands that grip it. Inside of you are all the fragments, beautiful colorful shards, that are all akimbo, and each represent a piece of who you are from intelligence, loyalty, love, sensuality, sexuality, and hope. In the right hands that Dom gentle twists and turns that cylinder of you watching all those pieces fall into place until finally the most beautiful potential of you is realized and viola an inspired Rose window is created to which the light of you beams out. And then I do it again...and again...and again.
What more to know about me?
I have a german shepherd one year old puppy named Spartacus, I have some faults like others, and if found would love to marry again and have kids again perhaps.
I hope that you found this profile helpful and like the opening words above write that there must have been something in your profile to reach out and hold my outstretched hand for you to grasp and say hello to me.
Best,
BK
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