I love to play BDSM games in which I am taken captive and sexually dominated. In the game I want a ravenous force of perverted lust to dominate and control me, and invasively sexually violate me in unspeakable ways. But what I'm looking for in reality is friendship with someone who knows how to touch me. In reality there should be respect and care (the point is to have fun) but in the game I am yours to use and abuse in kinky perverted ways - the kinkier and dirtier the better - I love to be surprised.

I am a slim, tanned, dredlocked, beautiful (so I'm told), 34yo submissive bi male, half Japanese Australian traveller looking for dominant men/women/couples/groups.

I'm not into too much pain, however pushing limits involves pain but it's usually good pain. What I like most is to totally lose control and to submit to the perversions of my captor - you can do virtually anything to me - I love anal exploration, enemas, fisting, rimming, dildos, cock and ball torture, bondage, blindfolds, biting, slapping, being pushed around and fucked like an animal, deep throating, nipple clamps, etc, etc. I want you to explore my limits and to gently but firmly push me beyond them. I LOVE anal penetration but find deep penetration painful, I prefer short/fat cocks and dildos but hands are the best. If you have a long cock then you'll need to gently stretch me to fit you. But what I love most is for you to penetrate me with four fingers, to grope me from the inside, to grip me by the tailbone and to stretch me with your knuckles.

I also love to pleasure my captor, to worship your cock/pussy, lick your arse, to serve you and please you in whatever way you desire. The more you violate me and demand from me the better.

There are four main limits that I have: safe sex, no extreme pain, no injury and my face cannot be recognisable in any photography. Within those limits my flesh is yours, you can explore me, probe my limits, objectify me, use me as your sex slave or sex toy and explore your own perversity. You should be firm and forceful but don't be cruel or violent. If you know how to take me and make me submit I will be totally yours for a while.

In everday reality I am a sensitive, spiritual, intellectual idealist and this submissive perverted part of me is quite repressed - but I want someone who will open me up and draw this part of me out. Someone who understands the difference between reality and the game, who wants to discuss things openly and intimately, who demands of me complete openess and surrender - both physical and psychological. Someone who will force their will upon me and push me beyond my self imposed limits.

That's ideally what I'm looking for but I also take great pleasure in just being touched and used as a sex toy. You don't need to be a master dominator, even if you just want to grope me, finger me and masturbate me whilst I pleasure you. That too is great. And if you want to dominate and sexually violate me but aren't confident or sure how to, then so long as you have the lust to take me and use me, I can show you how.

I also like to switch but I'm definately in a submissive phase at present. I also like to wrestle for sexual dominance and control (instead of just assuming dom/sub roles it is a constant power struggle). I'm also open to the idea of something full time - in everyday life I am not usually submissive but I am keen to try being a full time sex slave - I have no ties to anywhere and I'm willing to travel and relocate for the right situation.

If this turns you on then contact me - I'd like to get to know you, taking it gently at first to develop understanding and trust, but as we get to know each other you can unleash the full force of your lust upon me and brutally sexually violate me in dirty kinky ways. I want to be yours so that you can invasively torment me, push me to exhaustion and sexually dominate and control me.