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| I am an experienced Dominant with 15+ years in the lifestyle that has a wife/slave of 9 years. I am currently seeking applications from genuinely submissive males in need of strict discipline and training. The successful candidate will be between the ages of 18 and 55, have a strong desire to serve, and must be willing to submit themselves completely to my training regiment.
Training will include, but may not be limited to, obedience training; bondage and restraint; intense sensations; extensive orgasm control and denial; anal training; and domestic service. Candidates must be able to make themselves available for training sessions every four to six weeks. Individuals who are married or have girlfriends will not automatically be rejected; however you’ll have to convince me that your relationship will not significantly impact your ability to serve.
I will expect you to express your deepest, most personal desires to me. I base my training regiment on each individual submissive’s needs and previous levels of experience, so you must be willing to be completely honest and forthright at all times. I provide strict, personalized domination intended to challenge and expand your limitations, but always in a safe environment.
If you think that that the above position might interest you and you meet the minimum stated requirements, then feel free to email me an Application For Service. Include details about your previous experiences with submission, your most prevalent submissive desires, what you’d hope to get out of submissiveness training, and what you believe your hard limits are.
And for those of you who are wanna-be submissive too afraid to ever actually arrange for a face-to-face session and just hopes to collect some e-mail correspondence to jerk-off to, I understand how hard it is to take that first step and that you’re just doing what little you can to satisify your submissive cravings, but please, don’t waste my time. I am only interested in those who are sincere about needing real face-to-face training.
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A few thoughts about what to look for in a Dominant?
Should you encounter a Dominant who employs a cookie-cutter approach to training submissives, I would suggest that you turn and run as quickly as possible. Each and every submissive is unique and possesses unique training requirements. Attempting to force every sub to conform to a standardized training regiment may happen to work for a handful of individuals, but for the vast majority it will ultimately prove to be unfulfilling. That would be like going to a doctor who only prescribes a single treatment, regardless of his patient?s symptoms. A competent dominant understands that the every submissive is motivated to submit for a variety of reasons, and understanding the driving force behind an individual?s need to be dominated is essential.
It goes against most submissive?s nature to ask what their own submissive needs are, since they are usually so focused upon servicing the needs of a dominant. That?s why it?s a good dominant?s job to discover the needs of a prospective sub, to find some means of drawing out this information. The way I see it, it is a sub?s function to see to the wants and desires of his or her owner, while it is a dominant?s function to see to the needs of his or her sub. What a sub needs may not always be what they want, but it?s what?s best for them to progress along their submissive journey. Only a competent, well informed dominant can accurately ascertain what those needs are.
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A few thoughts about submission?
The journey of submissive discovery can often seem to be a mass of contradictory feelings. You find yourself craving experiences that on some level you feel that you shouldn?t. It?s both frightening and exciting. It involves exposing yourself completely, both physically and mentally in order to better understand who you are at the core of your being. It is abdicating all control in order to discover the true nature of freedom.
Finding someone capable and deserving of accepting your gift of submission can be very difficult. Not only are there plenty of wannabes and fakes out there, but not all legitimate dominants are suited to train all submissives, so finding a compatible match is essential. The best way to do that is to have some general idea of who you are as a sub. In order for a dominant to properly train a submissive, it?s important that they have some notion of what submissive needs most influence a submissive?s desire to submit. Any dominant who attempts to get you to submit to them without first taking the time and effort to thoroughly get to know quite frankly doesn?t have a clue what they are doing. Each and every submissive is unique and a one-size-fits-all training philosophy simply does not work.
In order for submissives to get a clearer idea of who they are as subs, I suggest that they try the following exercise:
Assume that there are three primary driving forces behind every sub?s desire to submit. 1) The desire to serve and please. 2) The desire for ?intense sensations? (what some would call pain). 3) The desire for a certain degree of humiliation or even degradation. Furthermore, assume that all subs possess all of these driving forces, but to varying degrees. For instance, a sub could be 50% service oriented, 20% pain oriented, and 30% humiliation oriented. Take time to honestly think about it and then try and decide what your own percentages are.
Of course, the purpose of the submissive journey is to determine precisely what these percentages are; however, it?s a good starting point for a sub to decide what they think those percentages might be. It can be very interesting to see how these percentages change as you begin training and start to get introduced to more and more aspect of the lifestyle.
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| Age: 42 |
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United Kingdom |
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