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Not seeking extreme uses and definitely not abuses - not for me, not of me. What I want is BDSM as it applies to reality. If it is not functional and does not fit in with day to day life, it is worthless to me. Owning slaves is good; monogamous marriage is good. I would accept either situation or both; but, I will not accept a man who wants to be legally a husband, but physically a slave. If a man wishes to be a husband, he must live up to the title and if he wishes to be treated also as submissive in some capacity, that might be acceptable, depending on the exact nature of his desires. I like dominant men who are reasonable and can deal with strong women and who, like me, are dealing well with reality. If they expect worship, forget it. No bellowing, no "women are inferior" talk, and I will not even consider being their slave. I would only consider a dominant man as a marriage partner and only if I had reason to believe he could be dominant without tearing me down or feeling threatened by my strength. I like submissive men who can listen and obey, who are also dealing with reality. If they are looking for a goddess, they should go to India where there are temples to hundreds, maybe thousands, of them to choose from. I'm a human being! If you serve me as a slave, you will be a real slave. This means total obedience, loyalty, listening, working, without argument and without demands. It might mean being caged, whipped, forced to sleep on the floor or whatever else I find suitable for discipline or it might mean simple patient obedience but otherwise living much like a free person. It is not your choice, it is mine. And, for your information, those of you with nothing better to do than send negative messages: It's your time that will be wasted, not mine. I know how to both block and delete and your opinion means nothing, unless it agrees with mine.
desiredhope
 
 Age: 18
 United Kingdom