Hi well Im not sure where to start when I write this but here I go....
I am a male in my mid 40s who is starting to feel and understand a kink side in me that Im not sure however I am not sure what it is I would like to have my mind played with as much as my body as I try to please the other partner.
I am not dominant however I am unsure if I am submissive either.
I have a huge interest in giving up my orgasm to the control of a woman does that make me submissive or just some one how has a kink.
I am would also be interested in trying chastity some a sustained length of time again I am unsure if this makes me submissive or just a kinkster.
I would also be interested in giving over my ass to a female to use.
A lot of what am writing uses I that makes me think its more about me so therefore I am not submissive just a kinkster.
Hoping to chat with females who might be able to help me understand the difference and maybe put me on the right path.