Tried to make this my profile but it won't save soooo....I'll post it here until I can figure it out:

Ugh, well that sucks.  I just write my proflie and it was deleted.  Here goes again:

I'll start off by saying I'm married so if there is anyone looking that is not interested just because of that I won't be wasting their time.  My wife has no idea about this account or my interests that are to follow.  I know she would not approve because of the multiple comments she has made throughout our marraige in regards to cheating/etc.  Which is kind of ironic because she has cheated on me before...although, to her surprise, I as much more accepting.  I won't go into that much here but if anyone is interested I'd be happy to share the story.  So she is not some innocent wife while I am some scheming husband looking for something on the side.

I will say upfront that I have no idea what I am really looking for.  I am married but I am not satisfied in my marraige, for whatever reason.  If I had to describe it as a flavor it would be considered vanilla for sure, sexually speaking.  I am looking for someone to challenge and invigorate me.  I am looking for someone who is a lot like me, looking for something thats missing.  Someone with a sense of humor and doesnt take things too seriously but can be serious and very passionate in the right circumstances.  This sounds like a bit of a match.com profile but I am just describing the type of person I am looking to find.

I have been told that I am a switch, so thats what I'll go with here.  I'm only really a switch with girls though.  With men I am strictly submissive.  I am looking for different things depending on which gender I'm interacting with so I'll split it up:

Girls:

I am just looking for a girl who wants to explore.  Dominant or submissive, either one doesnt matter to me.  If I was forced to pick (but really, how often are we forced to choose something opposite) I'd prefer a dominant girl.  But I do love submissive women as well. 

With a girl, as said before, I am looking for someone to explore all avenues with.  I would like to let the dominant girl do all kinds of exploring and just play with the submissive girl and enjoy her as well.  Man that is not very eloquent.

Men:

I am strictly submissive when it comes to men.  I am looking for a guy who wants to take control of me and have me on my knees servicing him.  Although I am very interested in online play for some reason it hasnt translated to real life the couple of times that I've done anything.  I've had two instances, once where I was 16 and did some mutual masturbation.  The other was recently where gave and received oral for the first time with another man.  It wasn't exactly what I was expecting...for some reason.  I didnt think it was as hot as I had hoped, but I think it was because of the guy.  He wasnt the same in person as he was online, a lot less dominating.

I would like a guy like me, but like...ten years down the road and more in control.  I want a guy that will tell me to take off my clothes, pull my cock out of my pants, jerk off...suck his cock....jerk off while his cock is in my mouth.  But also not be too pushy either.  Realizing I am just exploring and when to let up.

I think thats all I've got for right now.  My attention is a little split so I apologize if this is a bit incoherent.  I'd love to talk about anything and everything with anyone interested.