gessss people  I am not interested in MARRIED or long term relationship guys..  Don't bother to ask for online or in person if you are either of those..  and  think again, if you can lie to me.. i will find out!!! '

And when i do.. she MIGHT too.   so ask yourself is a few hours of fun worth your home life? your house, children, your wife??

SO is voice training actually able to be done?  if so whats the best way to train them?

Visiting Fairfax tonight..  i keep forgetting that DC area is a nice place but the traffic sucks.. and i was here last October  and it doesn't look like they have done ANYTHING new on the road construction..

does anyone else look at furniture with a "new" eye once you get into the lifestyle? 

I am soo disappointed with hotels, their furniture is soooo boring  lol  but my room DOES have a copy of the bible AND the book of Mormon.  i read an new articule couple months ago about a hotel in England that took the bible out and put a copy of 50 shades of grey and a blindfold in each room.. and his bookings took off :)  

i would think hotels would want to encourage patrons to come back by giving incentives to do so :)  it would give a whole new meaning to room service!!!

LOL well thats weird.. I was looking at my pictures and they where all gone.. now they are back..   :)   i was gonna say i guess i have to start over but... now i dont. 

hello folks. I hope everyone is getting their just rewards. 

ok its official  the photo section of CM sucks.. lol  having difficulties adding and taking off photos.. and why do some of them go in sideways??   

Welll Christmas is over for another year..  time to start shopping for next :) 

i hope everyone had a nice holiday.

Having internet issue.. hopefully will have it fixed by this weekend...

hope everyone is doing ok..

Me..

my question today is about tatoos.. Do they HAVE to be outlined in black? If not why are they always outlined in black? 

and for those people who have tats on their junk.. How do they do it? Do you have to stay hard the entire time to make it look right? 

OK a question for you motorcycle riders out there. I am thinking about getting my license for my 45th Bday (next month ICK!!  I still think there is a mistake on my Birth certificate it must be wrong..)  the question i have is ..

What would be a good beginner bike?  (something used i am sure.. so when it gets dropped  i wont feel too bad :)    I heard the Honda Shadow is a good one. Cheap and easy (hmmm sounds like some people on here :) )

Any other ideas? 

thanks

Dentist!!!!!  

they are born sadist!!!   hmmm wonder how many of them are doms.. 

but i wont complain about them today when i go it....   i broke a tooth last night, funny thing is it didn't hurt.. this morning i look like a chipmunk with a full load of nuts..  and it hurts..     :(    not a good morning thats for sure.

lol then again my dentist most likely doesn't like me either.. he started giving me a sedative before i visit him.. i kept trying to bite him..  :)    poke me with something sharp and metal see if i don't fight back..  :)

off to be tortured..

What is your favorite thing to do with your other half... NON sexual?

I was watching TV and once again half the commercials on there were nothing but male enhancement stuff..

Yet men are always complaining that woman aren't interested that much in sex..

My thoughts are ( I know scary, she's having thoughts again.).. wouldn't it be better to work on something to turn the women on?? You can give all the men out there a little blue pill BUT what good does it do when the women say.. "not tonight dear, I have a headache"

The more horny women out there the more men would be happy and a lot less women with headaches.

PLUS I would think the money they could make would be huge.. 

Just a thought..

Anyone else find those short clip videos that run on the right side of the screen annoying as hell??  

 and why are they always woman???   

Where are the men rubbing themselves ?? 

I am tire of tits and ass being rubbed againts my screen.. bluccckkk.  (where is the cleaner!!!!! i feel dirty)

who can I complain too, not that it will do any good, because i am sure its men who run this site 

WE WANT MORE MEN  if we got more men then maybe more woman would join :)

ok falling off my soapbox now.. where is my drink??

Have a good weekend..

Bahhhh it's going to be hot again this weekend.. i thought Fall was here..  I am ready for a blazing fire  a hot drink and a naked man at my feet....  lol

too bad i dont have a fireplace or the naked man.. guess i will have to settle for the hot drink.   :)

it's dark and dreary and raining.. The perfect morning to sleep in and cuddle. Too bad I had to go to work.  :(   

OK which state has the best BDSM community?  clubs?  and have you gone to them??

was watching a commercial for a mattress it says you will sleep like a baby..

Why is it that people say "sleep like a baby" ?  babies wake up 10 times every hour for feeding,  popping and just because...  its right up there like sleep like a log.. hmmm logs dont sleep they are DEAD.. 

ohh well life goes on.

Was sitting in traffic today and a thought popped into my brain, Which vegtable makes vegatable Oil??  i have never seen a veggie that oily that it can be squeezed to make oil.

the next thought was.. with all the processing that happens to our food.. DO I really want to know which veggie it is?

Whats with the rude emails from people I have never spoken too and never even chatted with? Does it make them feel better about them selves to try and belittle me?  Notice I said try..

They know nothing about me yet they send emails saying they are better and that I am stupid and foolish and fat. 

Until you get to know me, until you meet me you have no right to say anything about me 

maybe your hoping you will get me mad and chastise you.. But in my book you are not worth my time.. Only someone I like will get my time and energy and paddles cuffs and orders :) 

People you need to SMILE in your photos!!!  :)  

i got an email from someone telling me i need to get a reality check . Do you think my list of wants is beyond reason? is there no chance to find someone to fit that bill? Should i bow down to some fool who thinks my needs and wants are not important?

give in to some cheating bastard who just wants a fling on the side?

pay someone so he can sit on his ass all day long while i work?

try to develope a LTR with someone 12 hours away?

no i dont think i will listen to the fool.  MY rules stand. If there is a guy out there for me then he is out there.. if not. I can always find a vanilla and have a little kink on the side.

WOW hadn't realized how many ummm "Professional" woman there are on here.. how brazen to post your prices on your profile. i find it sad how many people expect pay for this, but i guess everyone has to get their piece of the pie. and i am sure there is someone out there willing to pay.

How many of you on here have been aproached to pay and how many of you have paid?

I am relatively new to this life style but learning quickly :) I have found I enjoy using a crop and paddle. I absolutely looove to edge and control your orgasms. Nothing gives me more pleasure then to watch you writhe and strain against the bonds while i tease and torment.

I guess my rules are too scary for some of the guys lol  :)