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Hello, Please bear with me since I am new to this. :)
I've went through quite a few changes over the past few years. They have given me the opportunity to get to know myself, explore my sexuality, and learn what makes me tick. I've been surprised to learn that what I crave is a strong man who is capable of bringing out my submissive side. The men I've had in my life have lacked substance. They were not capable of standing up for themselves or their family, had no moral compass, often relied on me to make decisions, support them financially, take the lead sexually, and generally sucked the life out of me. I need a man who leads by example - someone who is worthy of my submission and who will cherish and appreciate me. Most importantly I want someone who is capable of commanding the ship so I can finally hand over the wheel and trust you won't run us ashore. However, I am a sub, not a slave, so I do have opinions and do not want to be locked away from the world. However I do expect that my Dom will have the final say on all decisions.
I am not seeking play partners, but want to find "The One". My ideal situation would be in a 1950s style relationship with traditional roles and a D/s sexual component (the proverbial lady in the parlor / whore in the bedroom) or perhaps a Daddy/girl scenerio. Tell me how you like your coffee, your eggs, and your blow jobs. Make me bend over as soon as you walk in the door from work so you can relieve yourself before I serve dinner. Tie me up and use me as you wish. Let me be your companion and sex toy.
I'm not seeking a poly relationship and am looking for a Dom who wants one loyal partner, not a harem. The Dom that I will submit to in my mind's eye can control not only me, but himself as well, and is willing to make me his sole focus. I'm not a pain slut and respond best to positive reinforcement, as opposed to punishment, since my natural instinct is to please those I care about. I do enjoy the occasional spanking, bondage, and some humiliation - although I'm not into the more hardcore stuff.
I'm reasonably attractive and am constantly told I look much younger than my age. I've been a BBW for most of my life and although I would like to lose weight to be at optimal health (I'm sure my Dom can "encourage" me with this), I doubt I will ever be truly thin. I'm educated, can hold a decent conversation on many topics, have a wide variety of interests so make an excellent life companion, and am a decent cook.
I'm not limiting my search based on race and am generally open on age, but please at least be between 30-60 years old. I do hope to find a Dom who is intelligent, educated, professional, and financially secure since it would be difficult for me to submit to anyone who has not achieved some level of success in life.
I do have a child in high school, so for that reason I am unable to relocate at this time. However, I am hoping to either meet someone local or who is patient and willing to do the "long distance thing" until the time that I am free to come to him permanently.
Hopefully my Dom is out there and will find me so I can take my place at his feet. A girl can dream.....
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