I am a BBW sub on Long Island. This is not a game for me, I am looking for a serious relationship with a Dom, someone older, mature, experienced. Someone who can teach me the things I have not learned yet in the few years I have been searching. You don't have to be an expert, just be firm, and someone trustworthy and safe. I crave a Daddy, grandpa, or authority figure when we play, but someone who is fun and can make me laugh also. I want someone I can be comfortable with.
Please-no married men. I have heard all the stories about wives who don't understand you, are ill and cannot fulfill your needs, etc.
I guess I should add that I am not looking just for a play relationship, but for a real relationship with a real man. I am over the men with excuses, I am single and totally available, and you should be too. Again, for the men with short attention spans- NO MARRIED MEN!!!! NO MEN WITH WIVES, GIRLFRIENDS, OR ARE OTHERWISE COMMITTED. I promise you I am not interested.